Why cant people just leave me alone!?

[Raevicious]

Seriously...gonna vent a little here. I moved into a new room yesterday, lifting and bending over and if I stopped I would get yelled at to get back to moving my things. By the time I finished, I had everything in my room, set up my computer and relaxed and then went to sleep. But before I went to bed I got an email from baby daddy saying that he won't be able to help and that I should just put her up for adoption. Wtf!? So upset, I went to bed. Woke up and my back is killing me. Stepdad gets on my case instantly about how I need to organize my room and get everything set up and that he is disconnecting my internet until I finish. Can I not catch a freaking break!? I want to cry and scream but I'd just get yelled at more, which I can't handle.

[1sttimmommy]

Ive never been in your position but you should cut off communication with the father. he sounds like a low life and you andbthe baby are better off with out him. from what I've read about from your previous posts you are already doing a great job as long as you give the baby the love and support. n for your step dad he's a jerk needs to worry about his own daughter and teach her a few things before coming to b**** at you.especially knowing your pregnant and have a heart condition. good luck hope you feel better :)

[Raevicious]

His daughter is a freeloader...and he can't even tell her to get a freaking job and help! I think he's just frustrated with her and taking it out on me since he knows I can't do anything about it. My mom helped me with my room a little bit, mostly just put all the baby stuff away lol

[Morrisfamily2012]

He's an a$$ hole. Actually both of them are. Your step dad needs to back off. It's not like he lives or even has to go into your room. Plus he knows your condition. He's just being heartless. He's lucky you work and pay your own way. You'd be suprised at people our age that have never been out of moms/dads and just freeload. As for baby daddy screw him. He's probably just afraid of responsibility. Men are just like that. There's very very few good men in this world. Hope things get better for you.

[Raevicious]

21. Moved back in with mom because I needed the help since I'm doing this by myself

[Toni100388]

How old are u hunny?

[Raevicious]

Yeah that's him lol I replied to him with she's not going to be put up for adoption, that is all I have to say to you.
And with my stepdad seriously. I'm 21...not 5. His daughter doesn't do anything. I work and pay for my own stuff, she hardly goes to school and she gets taken out like she's a spoiled kid!
I'm so fed up. I'm taking my time on my room...its not like he can take my phone because I pay for that myself!

[DNP47]

You should not be move furniture and things being 20 + weeks pregnant with a heart condition. I have heart rate issues, my rate is significantly higher then normal (I have POTS). My doctor specifically stated I should not be lifting anything heavier then 10 lbs. Take it easy.... if your heart rate is high, its probably bc your blood volume is low, when your rate is high, the blood has less time to be oxygenated by the lungs, leading to less oxygen for you and baby...not good. Explain that to the step dad. I had a horrible step dad who made my life miserable for 15 years, so I get the resentment. Also, he's going to turn your internet off until you finish? What are you...5 years old? Please, that sounds punitive and petty if you ask me. As for baby daddy....he doesn't have the right to tell you to give your baby up. He also doesn't have the choice to say he isn't going to help you. I think I remember your story (forgive me if I'm wrong) but isn't he working under the table to avoid going to jail for not paying support on another child? Call the cops on his a$$! He deserves it!

[Capriciousangel31]

*hugs* I am sorry you have to deal with all of that, it's not right and it's not fair.
I hope things get better for you and remember all of us are here for you no matter what

[Raevicious]

I also have a heart condition to top it all off with not being able to do things at a normal rate