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Help with boyfriend?

Ever since being pregnant my hormones are crazy and I'm very moody..angry, emotional. Every weekend after my bf gets done with work he will go with 2 of his guy friends out to the bar for drinks. I get upset because I am just sitting at home waiing on him, I'm missing him all day and I'm having a hard time handling it. Is that bad to feel that way? Its by fair to me he gets to go out drink and have fun when I can't do anything. I know I canto out with friends but none of my friends really go out anymore. It bothers me he'd rather be out then spend time with me. :(
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Trust me I felt the same way! My husband would go out at times and although it wasn't a lot, each time I would be pissed. What I had to understand was that a man is not going to want to sit at home and sleep and rest all day like me. So you have to communicate and improvise. I had to come to the conclusion that I can find other ways to have fun just like he does, like have a girls movie night or go get a pedicure and eat out, things pregnant women can still do. I'm only 20 and my husband is 22 so being this young, we are still sometimes gonna want to have fun. At the same time your boyfriend should understand and you all can come to some type of agreement. Just avoid stressing and try to keep yourself occupied so you don't feel so lonely. Now, both him and I have an understanding and he rarely goes out but when he does, I make sure I'm somehow busy as well. Hope that helps ;)
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No its not bad to feel that way at all. Its normal to want that attention from our other halfs. He's prob just trying to get it out of his system now before the baby comes. Try talking to him and ask him if he could make a night out for just u and him to talk and give u some u and him time and for a little attention for u. Im the same way. My fiance's military and were in different cities and its hard cuz all I want is him to be around. With our hormones its hard to be alone. Hope this helps :)
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