too many arguments

[j200820]

Me and my boyfriend used to argue alot before and after i got pregnant. Im 13 weeks in and he left me a week ago. He claims he doesnt love me anymore but wont say it in my face. I keep tryingto talk to him but he is so neglecting. Its been a week of none stop crying and i feel like i cant go on with my pregnancy. Its not what i wanted and its not what i want for my baby, i feel soo depressed its causing me think about an abortion. I need advice please

[missmossyoak92]

hun don't let no man ever let you think about getting abortion this baby needs you rather you with him or not you will be a wonderful mommy sometimes men get scared if this his first baby you will be okay and I'm sure you have plenty of support don't worry sweetie it will be okay

[Ftm1994]

Hey hun. I know how you feel.. my baby's father left me when I found out I was pregnant at week 4... he denied his son and called him a *******. Thought I cheated on him when I didn't. I am now 34+6 and I love my son more than anything! You are not alone hun. Just don't give up just yet.. it will be okay.

[bumpinbaby1995]

Now what if you get the abortion and he STILL leaves you ?, now you don't have a baby or your bf. Don't choose a man over your child ever. Don't give him that much control hun.