I'm not talking to my mother in law right now. And my husband agrees. She is now changing from nanny to something else and won't tell anyone. All because she is in a stupid fight with my husband's grandma.
That is true i just know my fiance and his mom had a really close relationship im scared hes going to start feeling bad for her and give back into her
Im in the same boat you are but its only the mom
Thankfully for me my fiances mom is no longer in our life because she is a very toxic person
Had to deal with her for three years before he decided he wasn't going to help her anymore
If you're life is better and more positive without them just keep them out. Why have someone around your kids who is only going to breing nastiness and problems that doesn't need to be around your child