and today's topic is.....Monday Madness!!!

[Ashelen]

Yes, it's that time of week again. We can all say it together..."UGH!". So pick a topic to vent about and let loose. remember, avoid controversial topics such as abortion, teen pregnancy, politics, etc....and be respectful and kind towards our other members. Let's make this a safe, comfortable place for everyone to talk about what's bothering them.

I'm on the move right now so I'm not gonna put down my vent, but everyone feel free to get started!

[Linzola1]

my gripe of the day is why is it every month of the year we have enough money to cover our bills but once November hits rent is behind and bills have to be paid!!! I know this is normal but grrr it is annoying. I really cant cmplain because I got my son all of his christmas presents already but my Mother swears she has to get something great from everyone or shes being cheated. I asked her if she wanted my son to paint her a picture on canvas like he did last year and she says "is that all I get?" Idk why but that bothered me a lot more than it should have! I think she would rather get something fantastic than make sure I have enough money to get my sons gift. DH just lost his job and has found a new one but that puts a delay on paychecks.. GRRRRR

[cassandra19]

i am going to vent that i just found out our friends mother got laid off, i watch their daughter for them and get paid 600$ a month, now after the 17th i wont be doing it. it really ***** it was my way of making money, and now that i am losing that i feel so sad about it. I liked having that extra money for stuff, but now its gone. Specially around christmas and birthdays, and a new baby coming.I still have money but not my hubby has to pay for everything and i hate that, i like contributing too. :( I just want to cry. We still have enough money to afford everything but having that extra is so much better. I really hope she finds a new job and needs me to help them, since they are planning a wedding for may, and moving back home in the summer. Agg what a crappy day other then i find out what we are having today hopefully :)

[Des_a_rae]

This is great!  

My vent is I have to go to my sister n laws wedding on Friday. Mind you she's a (sorry for being so blunt) but a *****, pretend to be christian.  She goes to church on Sundays then sends nasty txts and talks nasty on the other days.  She's slept with so many people where she works that her soon to be hubby(who works at the same place) wants her to quit and find another job as soon as they're married.  She's a "try to keep up with the jones's kinda person".  It disgusts me.  AND to top it all off, she's the "Precious sister/daughter" to her family.  Don't say anything bad about her, don't talk about her at all. UGH. If they'd just see the real her.  The reason she got divorced in the first place is she cheated so many times AND she WAS the "preachers wife".  I DREAD going to this wedding.  We don't get along at all.  She's always snotty acting like she's better, yeah right!  AND she only calls when she wants something. SO about a month back she had the nerve to ask me if I could video her wedding.  WHAT?? I haven't talked to her in like a month or so and that's only when there's a holiday or something and out of the blue she asks me if I can video her wedding.  I'm sorry, but I LIED to her.  I don't care to record her wedding.  Why don't she get one of the guys she's humping to do it!!!  Her soon to be hubby has a tracking thing on her car! I mean, c'mon, if it's THAT bad, why get married????  
Sorry for rambling on but she is really a HUGE "UGH" in my life.

[hopefulLady]

my vent.. dh is acting like a complete moron! his mom and sister + neice  are here at our place, he wanted me to accompany them to a trip to a place of worship (that they believe in), which is 200 km from our house.
Well, I agreed to go along. Now, DH does not do ANY work around the house, he never did, and now that I am pregnant, he acts like there should be no changes. I had requested him a few times to help me scrub the bathroom tiles, but he nicely ignores this job, knowing that before the day the bathroom looks more like a horror show, it would be anyways cleaned by me. so yes.. I cleaned and it broke my back literally.
The whole of next day I was limping around the house and in office like a lame duck!
And so naturally, I was not in a position to travel 400 km in one day, and hectic walking around on the trip. I told him I cannot go, and he says : I knew you wouldn't, taking offense that I am refusing to go with him and his family!
His mom offerred to stay back to take care of me, and he tells her, its fine, if she can go to work for 9 hours like this, she can stay at home alone as well! (And the reason I cannot quit work is because he forced me to co-buy 2 chunks of residential land with him, ALL on bank loan - and he knows it)
So he took them and left me home. He even told his sister that it is alright, not to worry about me, and he is sure that I would be dancing around the house once everyone leaves!
On coming  back next day, not a single word to me about how I am, just a sarcastic hello and acting like i murdered him or something!
I think, a man who cannot care about his pregnant wife, and his unborn child, is definitely a psycho! I cried so bad after they went, I just had a close friend and his wife come over for company for a while.. strangers feel bad for me, whereas family!!
ALL this.. after being in a relationship with him for 13 years, married for 5! :(
I feel so sick!

[Raerae336]

Ammanda- that really ***** that your going thru this family dispute right before your bday cause everyone should just care enough about you to put their problems aside for the night! Id just count an extra person cause it sounds like either DB will go or BIL.

My vent is.. Im still pregnant and 9 days from my induction date.

[shasy03]

So my Monday madness that I need to vent is about work...I don't understand why people wait for the last minute to say oh yeah this needs to be done.  We have known for 6+ months that we are opening a new center...our state licensing department comes on Friday to do final inspection and we hope to open Monday.  So, WHY wait for the last minute to tell me there is sooooo much paperwork that I have to retype with the new address b/c you didn't save it to the computer the first time you typed it?  

Why is it that we are on the last week and we have so much to do inside the building and she want to think that it's going to be done in time?  I already work 12 hour days and I won't EVER get to see my husband this week and oh lord that will just start another argument.  I don't know which way to turn right now...it's just soooo much to do.

On top of all this I'm suppose to go see a Reproductive Endocrinologist...and they haven't even scheduled my appointment yet....I mean really?  It's almost been a month since they referred me to them and they haven't returned a phone call to get me an appointment....geesh.

Okay I think that's it.  I feel better!