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I was with this really nice guy for a while and everything was great. A couple months after being together he started getting physically and mentally abusive. Not too long after that I found out I was carrying his baby. He hit me and threatened to kill the baby because I was a "cheating *****" after a lot of thought I contacted him telling him it wasn't his and he needed to stay away from me. I did it for the safety of me and my child. I'm now 15 weeks and doing it all alone. Some people judge me for being a single mother. Did I make the right decision?
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Yes! You did the right thing
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Oh you definitely did the right thing honey i wish i had that courage while i was pregnant with my daughter it would've saved me from a ton of pain heartache drama and bs that happened in the 3 years after i got pregnant with her. The people who are judging you must not know the whole story your doing the best thing for you and your baby and don't ever let anybody tell you differently it's goons be a hard road but your safety and sanity and the safety of your unborn baby good luck honey and keep your head up you guys will be just fine!
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I think u made the right choice, theres no need to put up with all that bs especially while pregnant. U have to think about whats best for ur baby. the only thing is its gona suck when ur baby gets older and starts asking for daddy
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Yes totally the right decision!!! You don't need someone to bring you down!! If you can do it on your own,i say go for it!!!(: stay strong& congrats mommy!!
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