NOT in the mood...

[Ashley910]

So i was never really sexual or really the type to want.sex all time, my husband on the other hand, wants its every day and if he could have it his way, maybe 3 times a day ! I think thats ridiculous. But lately i dont want it period! Im even gonna try to convince my husband that the dr said we cant due to a medical reason just so i wont have to. I see its killing him cuz its been awhile but i feel raped wen we do it cuz im sooo not into it or want to. My mom said i have to do it cuz thats part of being a wife, but i think that my body should be the only thing i have control over at least.

[carloswife]

Also DONT try to convince him that its a medical reason,Truth will come out,or he'll ask when your not around and then he wont trust u.So the moments where youll really need him most during your pregnancy,he'll think its just an excuse and leave u to yourself.Epic Fail,dosent work...I KNOW!

[carloswife]

Lol cant help but laugh at this.My hubby and i are having our second child and im only five months but bigger than first and my sex drive has been out the window to.I get annoyed sometimes pist when he mentions sex.I call him hunch monkey cuz hes always prodding his man buisness on me wanting to get busy and i recently told him i hate that.it ticks me off and puts me out of the mood even more.He also understands but is still a man.Like Amullen said ive given my hubby suggestions on how to get me in the mood.This morning i finally gave him some lovin and WANTED to lol its been weeks,but instead of poking me with his man junk,caressing,back rubbing...helped!! And made a huge difference.

[Galvez]

i know wat u mean i lost my sex drive a long time but my hubby understands!! i give it to him cz i feel bad n i rather him get it from me then to look for it somewere else even if its only once a week. The thing abt me is that i dont feel like im being raped so thats probaly our difference. But u can probaly do other stuff to keep him happy like bjs or foreplay JS

[Ashley910]

Thank you, i just dont want to him into someone else bed because of this...but i agree i shouldnt have to force myself to do anything i dont want to

[amullen456]

If you don't want to then don't. I'm the same with the not wanting it at all right now. Try some new things. Tmi alert....like role playing or letting the hubs give you a back rub. Let him turn you on.  Don't let anyone tell you that you have to cause no you don't. That is your body not your mothers.