confussed and stressed

[chantelmanser]

Im 12 weeks pregnant and me and my family have not been getting along. at all i dont feel wanted at my own house anymore i turn 18 june 28th i have a full time job my fiance who is the father of my baby has a full time job, but it seems as if my family doesnt think well be able to make it because of our pasts. we have both done a lot of changing this past year and dont do anything that we used to but im still getting stressed out and crying alot because everyday i get judged by my family and have to listen to them say things like nothings going to work out for me im going.to fail at things i should leave my fiance because he cant take care of me and a kid. :( idk what to do anymore!! help please?!

[beautifulmum]

i can say most of them will come around when they see you with your little one and realized you are a mommy and a woman not a child

[prettyfacetee]

I'm in the same boat now . It's hard when you need your families support the most , but they usually come around . I waited about two months and they ask me all the time how is the baby and are as excited as me. Just dont let them get to you :)

[lizancar]

I was in the same boat. Keep your head up. Best thing that worked out for me I moved out if my familys home. Good luck

[beautifulmum]

well i would say you need to feel supported by anyone you surround yourself with. if you family cannot support you and your decisions then you need to leave and make somewhere comfortable for you and baby and the daddy.
You can do it just fine i had my oldest daughter at 17 and she is now 13 and i did just fine but make sure you let your family know what they are doing to you. you must not stay there if they are making it worse for you

[lpewitt44]

Whatever you do...STAY STRONG...people are gonna doubt you for your whole life....i know it hurts that your own family are being like this to you and its hard but try not to let them get to you.prove them wrong!! Just ignore them when they tell u those things....why wouldnt you fail? Both of you with full time jobs....engaged ..and as long as youre happy dont worry about anything anyone else has to say.im sorry youre having to go thru this...but try you best to stay strong for the baby and your future family and life with your fiance! Good luck to you and I hope you have a healthy little one....!!!!

[mommyof2ttc3]

I felt the same way with my first I was about ur age. It was to the point where we wouldn't even talk and when I did talk to my family it turned into world war 3 lol but now I have 2 boys ages 3 & 1 I finished school have a decent job and I have proven myself to be the best mom I can be and now my family and I get along great once the baby arrives things will be different. Just keep your head up and prove them wrong that u n ur baby daddy can do it :) try to block their negativity out as much as possible :) besides if u n ur fiance think u can do it that's all that matters good luck and I hope all turns out great for u and your family comes around :)