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Pregnant?

If you could give me your opinion on this situation, that would be greatly appreciated.

I was seeing a girl in February, the thing is that she lived far away, and was down to visit me for a weekend.  

We had sex with a condom, but after I took off the condom there seemed to be *** all over my ****, but I never wiped it off.  I put my boxers back on and we did not do anything for about 15 to 20 minutes etc.   After that time period.  she jerked me off and then fingered herself.   She was not on the pill either.

The relationship did not work out.   I randomly and we lost contact.   I was looking at her picture randomly and she looks a lot bigger, like she gained weight.  Almost does look pregnant, but it is hard to tell because of the shirt she is wearing, but definitely is a lot bigger.   I am kind of worried she got pregnant, but I am not certain she is.  I do not think she realized, that there was *** on my **** and that she fingered her self.

I have a picture I can attach as well, if someone can give me their opinion and thoughts.

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1688492 tn?1346364370
I THINK THAT IF SHE WAS PREGNANT SHE WOULD TELL YOU, BUT IF YOUR WORRIED ASK HER
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3185867 tn?1348434443
shes definatly gained weight but she doesnt look pregnant.
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Your right though, it could easily just be birth control.
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Oh okay!  Well that is good to hear that from your opinions!

It is just weird, because she was never that big before
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Good luck and let me know how that goes
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3055148 tn?1368211800
I'm gonna say I don't think she looks pregnant, and if she was you don't think she would of said something to you? The only thing you can really do is ask her.
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Yeah you would think that, but you never know.

She could just be fat, but it is just a little sketchy.

I will probably try to get a hold of her, if I can.  
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The only way to know is to ask, but be prepared for her to become angry if she isn't... but I would be willing to put money on it that she's not, and if she is its not yers....15-20 mins is way longer than sperm can live with air hitting it...I believe they live for 3
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Its true!  I am just a little sketched out because it was middle of February that this happened.  I have not talked to her since March.

I just uploaded another picture of her around January time.
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Yu also have to know that girls body's work different than guys...it's very easy for some women to gain weight...it could also be from birth control

Pregnancy is not the only thing that causes weight gain
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Yeah, I know, but she was never really that big before.

I will post another picture of her before.
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to me she doesn't look pregnant, just a little bit on the heavier side
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Okay the picture is uploaded.

It could just be me and she gained weight, but I am not sure.
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Thanks for the responses!

I am going to post a picture of her in the photos section, and let me know your opinion in what you think.  

That would be appreciated!
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3224409 tn?1356206827
Ok first of all yes it is true that female chromosomes do live for longer but in right mucus which means inside women... 2nd yes other ladies ate right tht as soon as sperm is shown into air it dies... I doubt it she is pregnant if she is probably not from u...  

If u still have any doubts u should ask her to make sure everything is ok... By any chance that miracle did happen she ll be due very soon.... Take care n best of luck...
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You should ask her if she is pregnant and if she is ask her if the baby is yours. Even if it is blunt atleast you know.
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3185867 tn?1348434443
I highly doubt that she is. maybes shes just gaining weightn
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3062924 tn?1350414109
Some sperm...I think the female ones live longer. Honestly I would contact her and tell her what u did that night. Or u could wait till the baby is born for a paternity test
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after 15-20 mind sperm would die...
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