Personally, I would stay with your family for the first 3 months. Hopefully he can get leave through work to visit you or you could visit him once a month. Whatever happens you WILL make it;) one option just may be more enjoyable than the other.
Trust me girl when your baby gets here your gonna know what to do. Your going to need all the help you can get. It takes a while village to raise a baby trust me!!!you'll go crazy doing it all alone. Housework cleaning bottles feeding a baby every 2 hrs making dinner changing diapers calming baby. There's no time to sleep. So yeah just try and stay with your family for awhile a couple weeks at least to get a hang of things