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My partner lives in Sydney and my family live in Auckland. I want to be with my partner but he works 6 days a week and I have no support. but i know that when I am with family I have all the support I need. my baby is my first priority but I don't know what to do. I'm 21 years old
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Personally, I would stay with your family for the first 3 months.  Hopefully he can get leave through work to visit you or you could visit him once a month. Whatever happens you WILL make it;) one option just may be more enjoyable than the other.
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Trust me girl when your baby gets here your gonna know what to do. Your going to need all the help you can get.  It takes a while village to raise a baby trust me!!!you'll go crazy doing it all alone. Housework cleaning bottles feeding a baby every 2 hrs making dinner changing diapers calming baby. There's no time to sleep.  So yeah just try and stay with your family for awhile a couple weeks at least to get a hang of things  
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