Trust me girl when your baby gets here your gonna know what to do. Your going to need all the help you can get. It takes a while village to raise a baby trust me!!!you'll go crazy doing it all alone. Housework cleaning bottles feeding a baby every 2 hrs making dinner changing diapers calming baby. There's no time to sleep. So yeah just try and stay with your family for awhile a couple weeks at least to get a hang of things
Personally, I would stay with your family for the first 3 months. Hopefully he can get leave through work to visit you or you could visit him once a month. Whatever happens you WILL make it;) one option just may be more enjoyable than the other.