baby shower excitement!

[kennimae]

I am due June 4th and my mom called me today to get input on a babyshower that she is planning for me with a friend. We were going to go for beginning of april because it gives us time but then I found out my sister in law is moving back to PA from Alaska and so we pushed it back to May 3rd so she can come ... so excited.

On the other hand my mother in law was soooo rude on the phone when I talked to her. She lives about an hour to an hour and a half from my mom and I wanted to include her. I called to ask if she wanted us to pick a closer place in the middle so she can go and be involved and she said no in a rude way and said to not bother inviting her side of the family because they wont go either. Just had to vent that part.

[baby_love2014]

It's probably better she doesn't come.  You don't want any bad vibes at your shower. If she doesn't want to celebrate you and baby,  than forget it. None of my fiances family is invited to mine. Too much drama and not worth the stress.  
You'll have a good time! Don't let anyone bring you down!

[kennimae]

I asked her if she was going to plan one and she said no. We live 3 hours away so it would have to be planned so she can't surprise me. I was kind of taken back and hurt but if they don't want to come and celebrate our second bundle of joy its their loss I guess and other will save money from sending out invites.

[thirdandlastbaby]

Awe may 3rd is my bday :)..... and why was she being such a *****? Maybe she is planning a baby shower for you all as a surprise? Idk maybe you should have hubby talk to her and see what is going on?

[AshaB25]

Wow...that would have hurt my feelings. But congrats on planning of the baby shower.