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Have been so sad ever since i found out i was having a boy dont even want to talk about it now we have to do family things and thats all they want to talk about
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Wow.....
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Didn't mean ur comments were mean..and I didn't mean for this to come off as poor me just depressed and sad bc this was my last child bc during the ultrasound they found things wrong with me so prob won't be able to have any more kids
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The rude comment was a misunderstanding! And I'm very sorry about your loss I can only imagine the pain u went through! I can see why u wanted a girl. But just be strong and remember god knows why he does what he does! And I'm sure with time u will feel better! Hope the best for u!
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It's not horrible. Now that we have some idea where you were coming from we understand. Not how you feel but were your coming from. I'm truly sorry for your loss. God has blessed you with a little boy for a reason its nothing to be depressed about.
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Ok well first of all what was the mean comment? 2nd yes it is my choice on what I want and I know there was a 50 50 chance but when u have ur first daughter murdered and then u have a 2nd child and he is healthy as can be sorry that I wanted to have a lil girl...according to you all that's a horrible thing to want..so what if I'm depressed bc it wasn't a girl didn't say I was going to abort it or anything now did I?
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I'm hoping for another boy!!!
They are the sweetest most caring and loving little lives!
My little man is 5 now and a mommas boy!
He loves daddy but will not do a thing without momma!

I wanted my first to be a boy so if I ever had a girl she would have a big brother to protect her! And he does my daughter is 3 and he caters to her. She is a handful and is going to need a big brother for sure!

This is gods plan for you.

My mother in law had four boys all perfectly healthy. Then 5 years ago had a girl she has had 5 heart surgery since birth.
But not one day goes by we do not thank god for her.
We have to be thankful in every way for what we are given.
No matter the hand that is dealt.
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