am i pregnant?very stressed

[funkygrl]

hi..i am a 25 yr old grl living in india..the society and background im from is quite the conservative one so im freaking out even more about if im pregnant considering im not married and considering it was just a mistake.ok so ive been dating my boyfriend for 2 yrs..we clearly eastablished our rule of no sex before marriagel.im a virgin and ive never had sex ever.ive never even been physical with him till recently..anyhow first week feb he was ovr at my place and we both kissed and made out fully with our clothes on...neither his or my clothes were taken off so im assuming theres no way we can get pregnant from just touching eachother in our our parts with jeans on..anyway tht month i got my periods on the 9th of feb and then to my surprise i got them again the 19th of feb..it started with a brown discharge for 1 day and then  ended up like a proper period cycle with red proper blood ..im not sure wht tht was ...ive never had 2 periods in 1 month!! forsure tht lovemaking session i had with my bf cannot make my pregnant cuz neither my privates nor his were even touched without clothes on!!anyway after having 2 periods in feb i had my   one usual period on the 19th of march and then one usual ones on  the 14th of april !!!do u think tht brown discharge cud tht happened in feb cud be pregnancy related even thu i mever had sex but felt eachother on top of our clothes..i guess i had never done tht in the past so am paranoid..just really paranoid!!!!
anyway after all ths ..between 15th feb and 22nd april we never had sex but fooled around with our clothes on...not too many times just 3-4 times with my clothes on but not his ...also wed always fool around in the car,,,id stroke his private with my hands and i felt precum on it at times but tht was it..on the 22nd of april we both had had some drinks ..were in the car just kissing feeling each other...he had taken his pants off and i was storking him there while int he car ...i felt precum on my hands but i kept storking it,..later be started touching me on my pvt with his hands but my panties and a super thin lawn/very thin cotton  material pants were on ..he startesd rubbing his hands on me and did it for a good half hour even thu it was ontop of those lawn pants whcih were very very thin material and my panties but he felt me and stroked me thru the cottin oants only cuz he managed to remove my panties on the side while storking me there..so bascially the only barruie between his hand and my orivate part was tht very very veyry very thin cotton material..anyway after tht even i stoked myself with my hand for a bit over my thin pants which at some point io has stroked him with..im hoping tht precum had dried but im not sure..still it was ontop of my cotton pants..im not sure while he stroked me woth his hands if he had any precum on it and if my hand had some on it also...even thu the storking was over the super thin cotton pants..!!sooo scared!!!also ths is in the front seat of the car parked so u can imagine the positioning cudnt prolly be all tht right cuz he was on the driving seat and i was on the seat next to the drivers seat..we did ths for a good 2 hrs ...and then he out his pants back on...i never took my pants or panties off at all this night..later he somehow with his pants back on tried to get on my seat ..\awkward positiong and touch his pvt with mine ..we were both wearing clothes..but i put my hand over my private area as soon as he got ontip of me cuz i didnt want any of tht...anyway im super scared now!!do u think i can be pregnant???????i had my last periods 14th april tht ended around 19th april we had this makeout session on the 22nd night..i dont know when i ovulate..can u tell when i ovulate???im soo alooof with these things!!!im very very scared now!!anyway i got soo freaked out and confused cuz ths was my first time so intimate to anyone..since feb till april ths is the first time ive touched a guys private area and felt precum on my hand and seen it..i guess it was tioo much for me to handle also...anyhow after the 22nd nite i freaked out...i took plan b on the 25th evening at 5:30 pm within the 72 hrs window...do u think i needed it???do u think im pregnant????please help!!im reaking out completyely!!also the brown discharge i for on the 19th of feb tht turned into a period freaked me out cuz i have never had 2 periods in mone month!!!but after tht i got my periods on the 19th of march and then 14th april..im still waiting to get my period around 14th may ...please help am freaking out!shud i do a home  pregnany test???my parents wull disown me if they find out im pregnant!

[funkygrl]

ok thanx..my periods just lasted for 2.5 days...they looked like normal periods but were so short.it tht ok??perhaps plan b side effects?

[Clysta]

A wild guess because I suck at visualizing things would be that it's tissue. (Or a clot.) And if that's what it is. Yes. It's very normal.  

[funkygrl]

ok so i just checked on my periods went to change in my pad...and i found this fleshy thing on my pad...its like u know how raw meat has tht sretchy skin on top..it looked strectchy like tht but obv becuz of my blood it had become pink.red! is tht normal?

[funkygrl]

i just got my periods..thank GOD!!!so relieved! thanks a bunch for ur supprt Raerae and clysta !
u both have been very supportive.thanks once again :)

[SantanL]

If your family was so strict and conservative, you should have never done anything like this.
Well, now you know.  I hope this teaches you a lesson.

[Raerae336]

I am praying you get your period so you stop. because..... drum roll please.... YOU'RE NOT PREGNANT!:) Live your life normal again and stop stressing!

[Clysta]

They should be coming at any time. Stress could also have changed them. We warned you that it might. There's still time for them to come. They could also have been changed from when you took Plan B. So it's hard to say when exactly you will. Just don't think about it and go about your days like normal. It'll happen.

[funkygrl]

ok i took 2 pregnancy tests at home on the 12th morning first thing as i wpoke up and they both came negative.thank GOD! its the 14th here in india now and i still havent gotten my periods..last month i got my periods on the 14th of april,before tht i got them on the 19th of march and before tht i got 2 periods in feb..one on the 8th of feb and one on the 20th of feb..i dono when exactly i shud be gettin my periods...i thught i shud get them around the 14th but still havent gotten them :(

[Clysta]

I've told you time and time AND TIME again you're not pregnant. If you want to retest in the morning, then you can. But at this point, it should show up no matter when you take it. The pain can easily be from stress. I get it all the time when I stress out.

[funkygrl]

i just took the test at home..its come out negative :))))) thank GOD! but its like 8 in the evening here and ive urniated lots of times and had alot of liquids to drink also.i think i shud do it again tomm morning first thing.is there a blood test i can get done to completely rule any preganany out???ive had lower back ache for a while now and i never get it...maybe its stress or maybe its plan b side effects.

[Raerae336]

Its been long enough since your sexual contact that if you tested today and were pregnant you'd get a positive. If your period doesn't come on the fourteenth i wouldn't be surprised because you've been stressed out so go ahead and take it.

[funkygrl]

i just got the test,still havent done it..am thinking of doing it tomm early morning!!!my periods are due on the 14th..thts when i got them last month!!kinda freaking out!really wants  my normal periods to start!do u think i shud do the pregnancy test tomm morning or on the 15th morning if i dont get my periods then???

[Raerae336]

its just called a home pregnancy test.

[funkygrl]

i guess ill get a test ..what do i ask the drug store to give me??a pregnancy test kit or is it called something else...ive been experiencing lower back pain for the past 1 week also..and i never get it ,not even before my periods,never!...maybe its all the stress!

[Raerae336]

Well like i said take a test if you're worried two weeks after your sexual contact which it has been a first response early detection will pick it up like i said i don't  think its necessary but maybe it will put your mind to rest

[funkygrl]

sorry guys but i gues ive just been bery paranoid...its not like i dont listen to wht u say but im just really scared..today my vagina has been hurting a lot also...like deep inside the hole and i feel im peeing a lot......i havent had any sexual contact with my bf after tht nite of the 22nd...

[Clysta]

I've honestly told you any and all advice I can. You don't seem like you're really listening to any of it. You're making yourself sick stressing over absolutely nothing. Plan B doesn't always make you spot. You are not everyone else. So your body isn't going to always be like someone elses. You've not even missed your period yet. You're not even due for it yet. You need to calm down and wait for it to get here. Stressing like this can easily delay it and then you're going to freak out even more. I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, it just doesn't seem like you're listening to what anyone says, and constantly worrying about it.

[Raerae336]

No offense but giving you advice is useless you're not taking it in.. UNLESS you liEd and have done more with your boyfriend It is impossible that you are pregnant. If by some miracle and it'd be a big miracle.. you took the morning after pill which Is very effective. You'Re not pregnant. There is no need to take a pregnancy test. But if for some reason you still don't believe that you're pregnant well take a pregnancy test. its been long enough since your Sexual contact that it'd be positive.

[funkygrl]

any advice??id really appreciate it

[funkygrl]

do u guys thnk i shud take a pregnancy test or wait till the 14th which i smy period due date..i heard with plan b u get spotting n early periods..i didnt get any of those..also for the past 2 days ive been feeling nautious ..i just feell like throwing up but never do ..maybe im feeling tht cuz of stress...sooo nervous!plz advice.

[funkygrl]

do u think i should just wait till the 14th of may for my periods???or do a pregnancy test?

[funkygrl]

thanks rbarron..alll these forums and discussions online about couples fingering with precum/***  on hands over panties  and ppl getting pregnant with tht is really stressing me out cuz literally my lawn pants were as thin as panties if not of a thinner material..and becuz my bf kept stroking me for a good  hour im stressing out..but thanks alot..ur reply means a lot

[RBarron]

There is absolutely no way you are pregnant! If you keep acting this way people will start to notice that you are stressed and you will get yourself in trouble for no reason. The only way you can become pregnant is if the penis penatrated the vagina and he ejaculated inside of you just prior to ovulation. I timed this very well while trying to concieve with my husband and it took several months for me to get pregnant. STOP STRESSING.  If you are pregnant, you are lying about how you concieved. Even if you did have vaginal/penial intercourse, the plan B pill would have taken care of it, it's very effective. Do not take a pregnancy test unless you are one to two weeks late for your period.

[funkygrl]

how can i make sure like a 100 percent tht im not pregnant?if i get a uterus scan done will tht make sure like a 100 percent more than a pregnancy test ???im just soo paranoid ..also ive been reading about ectopic pregnancies..alot of ppl say plan b can have an ectopic preganancy as a side effect...soo confused and so stressed!