am i pregnant?very stressed

[funkygrl]

hi..i am a 25 yr old grl living in india..the society and background im from is quite the conservative one so im freaking out even more about if im pregnant considering im not married and considering it was just a mistake.ok so ive been dating my boyfriend for 2 yrs..we clearly eastablished our rule of no sex before marriagel.im a virgin and ive never had sex ever.ive never even been physical with him till recently..anyhow first week feb he was ovr at my place and we both kissed and made out fully with our clothes on...neither his or my clothes were taken off so im assuming theres no way we can get pregnant from just touching eachother in our our parts with jeans on..anyway tht month i got my periods on the 9th of feb and then to my surprise i got them again the 19th of feb..it started with a brown discharge for 1 day and then  ended up like a proper period cycle with red proper blood ..im not sure wht tht was ...ive never had 2 periods in 1 month!! forsure tht lovemaking session i had with my bf cannot make my pregnant cuz neither my privates nor his were even touched without clothes on!!anyway after having 2 periods in feb i had my   one usual period on the 19th of march and then one usual ones on  the 14th of april !!!do u think tht brown discharge cud tht happened in feb cud be pregnancy related even thu i mever had sex but felt eachother on top of our clothes..i guess i had never done tht in the past so am paranoid..just really paranoid!!!!
anyway after all ths ..between 15th feb and 22nd april we never had sex but fooled around with our clothes on...not too many times just 3-4 times with my clothes on but not his ...also wed always fool around in the car,,,id stroke his private with my hands and i felt precum on it at times but tht was it..on the 22nd of april we both had had some drinks ..were in the car just kissing feeling each other...he had taken his pants off and i was storking him there while int he car ...i felt precum on my hands but i kept storking it,..later be started touching me on my pvt with his hands but my panties and a super thin lawn/very thin cotton  material pants were on ..he startesd rubbing his hands on me and did it for a good half hour even thu it was ontop of those lawn pants whcih were very very thin material and my panties but he felt me and stroked me thru the cottin oants only cuz he managed to remove my panties on the side while storking me there..so bascially the only barruie between his hand and my orivate part was tht very very veyry very thin cotton material..anyway after tht even i stoked myself with my hand for a bit over my thin pants which at some point io has stroked him with..im hoping tht precum had dried but im not sure..still it was ontop of my cotton pants..im not sure while he stroked me woth his hands if he had any precum on it and if my hand had some on it also...even thu the storking was over the super thin cotton pants..!!sooo scared!!!also ths is in the front seat of the car parked so u can imagine the positioning cudnt prolly be all tht right cuz he was on the driving seat and i was on the seat next to the drivers seat..we did ths for a good 2 hrs ...and then he out his pants back on...i never took my pants or panties off at all this night..later he somehow with his pants back on tried to get on my seat ..\awkward positiong and touch his pvt with mine ..we were both wearing clothes..but i put my hand over my private area as soon as he got ontip of me cuz i didnt want any of tht...anyway im super scared now!!do u think i can be pregnant???????i had my last periods 14th april tht ended around 19th april we had this makeout session on the 22nd night..i dont know when i ovulate..can u tell when i ovulate???im soo alooof with these things!!!im very very scared now!!anyway i got soo freaked out and confused cuz ths was my first time so intimate to anyone..since feb till april ths is the first time ive touched a guys private area and felt precum on my hand and seen it..i guess it was tioo much for me to handle also...anyhow after the 22nd nite i freaked out...i took plan b on the 25th evening at 5:30 pm within the 72 hrs window...do u think i needed it???do u think im pregnant????please help!!im reaking out completyely!!also the brown discharge i for on the 19th of feb tht turned into a period freaked me out cuz i have never had 2 periods in mone month!!!but after tht i got my periods on the 19th of march and then 14th april..im still waiting to get my period around 14th may ...please help am freaking out!shud i do a home  pregnany test???my parents wull disown me if they find out im pregnant!

[Clysta]

First. Calm down. Freaking out will not help you at all. To get pregnant you would have had to have had sex. You've also had your regular periods since then. The extra one, while odd can happen. I used to get periods every two weeks for years on end. Wait till the next time you're due to get a period. If it comes as normal, you have nothing to worry about. Also, if doing stuff like this worries you, it would be less stressful to not do anything sexual with your boyfriend.

[funkygrl]

thanks for the quick response..im so paranoid!!!!i had plan b wihtin the 72 hr window after tht last makeout session of ours where he touched me on top of my clothes but i wasnt wearing jeans of think pants like before..thy were very thin..im so stressed!do u think i cud be pregnant?wht r my chances?

[Clysta]

Honestly, they don't sound high to me. Based on when you last got your period you would be more fertile from April 30th-May 5th. And if you've not had sex, you can't get pregnant. Wait till you're due for your next period. If you miss it, take a test. If you don't, you shouldn't have anything to worry about.

[funkygrl]

thanks..im just soo aloof with these things..never done them ever before! after the 22nd nite i came home i got really scared cuz i read all these articles of online about becoming pregnant if guy touches u with the same hand as precum and i touched myself with tht hand also but on top of those very very very veyr very thin pants..i took plan b on the 25th evening..when do u think u shud get my periods??some ppl say with plan b ur periods get messed!!im so confused with all this stuff rite now!too much for me to handle..

[Raerae336]

It is impossible to become pregnant with out full on penis into the vagina penetration. Stop stressing.. it'll only screw your period up more! Take a deep breath, you're fine!:)

[Clysta]

It's hard to say when you would get it. Plan B can change the way your cycles are, but you need to not worry. Stress does a lot to your body. You've not even missed a period yet. If this is too much for you to handle, you really need to watch the things you do in your sexual life so you can avoid a situation like this in the future.

[funkygrl]

ive had some allergy on my face for the past 2-3 days..like red rashes??do u thimk tht cud be a side effect of plan b i took on the 22nd???i didnt experience any plan b side effects as such at all..i just took an anit allergy for these rashes on the face..i hope tht doesnt effect my plan b pilll i took on the 22nd..any advice?

[funkygrl]

also i live in india with a very conservative back ground..i possibly cant go to a gyne here to get a check even if i have to cuz my mom will come along..i hope i dont need any of tht at all!!also i heard some grls can get their periods even when they r pregnant??is tht true??

[Raerae336]

The plan B isn't/wasn't necessary you did not have sex therefore you're not pregnant. As far as the rash on your face goes it may very well just be dry skin you're clearly having anxiety about the situation. Allergic reactions to plan B are very rare. You're not pregnant. Breath. I suggest no longer taking part in any type of sexual activity if its causing you to stress this bad. I would also recommended taking a sex education course. as i said, unless his penis was inside your vagina, there is no chance of pregnancy.

[funkygrl]

yes!!!Never again....even thu we didnt really have sex but uve read soo much on the interent in the past few days where precum or *** on guys hand if fingured thru panties can cause pregnancy tht im really freaked out !!argh!!

[Clysta]

Rashes can be caused by Plan B, but they are usually extremely severe and you would need to be looked at. It is possible to get your period while pregnant, but they're normally not regular and are normally light. You need to calm down. You have no need to be this worried yet.

[Clysta]

Also. You shouldn't trust everything you read on the internet. It causes far too much unneeded stress. Sperm doesn't live outside of the body for that long, and as Raerae336 said. Sperm would have had to have been inside of you, or very very close to the opening of your vagina.

[funkygrl]

my bf was fingering me with his hands inside me ovr the pants ..just like penetrationn but with his finger but  it was ovr the flimsy cotton  pants n i dono if we had precum or semen on his hands..prolly even if there was it must be precum ,,the pants r like very very v ery thin material!! :(

[funkygrl]

i just took an anti allergic for the rashes!!!i hope it doesnt intermingle will the plan b dosage...even thu its been a week tht i took tht

[Clysta]

Inside you over pants? I think I get what you mean. But even then. It would have had to have gone through your clothing and up inside of your vagina. They would have had to have been super sperm to survive that.

[Clysta]

Getting pregnant from being fingered is extremely rare if not impossible. (I myself don't believe people who say it's happened to them)

[funkygrl]

thanks your replies mean a lot!

[funkygrl]

im wondering if i go to a skin specialist to get my rashes checked with  my mom..wht am i supposed to tell the skin specilaist??i possibly cannot tell her i had plan b...also if i go to a gyne to get checked will she knows i had plan b last week..as in if she doesd my pelvic ultra sound can she tell i had plan b a week bak??

[Clysta]

Plan B only stays in your body for I believe 2 days. Ultrasounds use sound waves to see a picture, and since Plan B is a pill that's impossible. You just go into a doctor and tell them you have a rash.

[Clysta]

Out of curiosity, why would you even get a pelvic ultrasound? They're normally only used if the doctor had an actual need to check something.

[funkygrl]

no i was just wondering .....
also as u said plan b stays in the body for 2 days..dont u think if im feeling the rashes today it is  a bit too late for the reaction of plan b or is it possible???also i got my face bleached yesterday but i never get rashes from tht..its just all ovr my cheecks and i feel itchy..its become worse today..i was ok till 2 days bak and i took plan b on the 25th!i had no other side effects of plan b at all nausia..headache etc..just feeling these weird rashes all over my cheecks now!

[Clysta]

You could have possibly had an allergic reaction to it. I can't say for sure. You would need a doctor to look at it to know anything for sure. You may in the end have to say you took it. Because of your age, I can't imagine you would have to have your parents in the room when you're at the doctors. They might ask for a list of medications you've taken so that way they know how to treat you.

[funkygrl]

:(((((( noooooo!!!

[funkygrl]

do u think i shud ignore the rashes on my cheeks if it doesnt spread futher n let them get better on their own..i have taken an anti allergic rite now!or is ths something serious?