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5609181 tn?1375332372

No sex for me I guess...

My boyfriend never wants to have sex! It doesn't even bother me that much that I don't get the physical part of see but it makes me feel so unattractive to him and he just kind of ignores it when I bring it up.. :(
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5627474 tn?1374148775
Be lucky your even allowed to.have sex. I have a low lying placenta and haven't been allowed to have sex the last 6 weeks!!! And trust me...he wants to. And my jaw is getting tired! Lmao
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My husband was Llike that my first pregnancy now my second he wants it and I dont lol pay back I guess ;-)
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5908184 tn?1376870969
My boyfriend is just as much into sex now as he was before I got pregnant, if not more. Im all worried about all these new and crazy things that are happening to my body and he always goes out of his way to make sure I feel beautiful. I coulnt ask for a better partner. Hes the most wonderful man I could ever have hoped to meet. Dont let your bf's slack sex drive get you down though. In the end this whole experience will bring you two closer together.
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5609044 tn?1383514943
Mine was only like that when we first found out ofcourse this is our first and he was scared of hurting baby.  But now he wants it all the time ! And I do to lol
@honeykooo that's hilarious!
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Maybe tell him. Cry. Tell him u don't feel attractive. I was bawlinng a week and a half ago cause my skin is ugly now and I'm getting my belly and now he makes a huge deal to say how pretty I am or how "sexy" I am. The other day I had some cute maternity pants on and he was making a huge deal sayin I looked really good in them :). And when we have sex the whole time he's saying stuff making me feel extremely sexy lol
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4715985 tn?1371582997
My sex drive went down hill when i got pregnant and i basically told my hubby that if he wants it hell need to tell me cuz im just not in the mood at all lol so thats how we did it although the last three weeks (4days overdue today) has been very dead between us. I think we are so in the moment of wanting our son out and me being in more pain hes trying to be respectful. So i try and remember and try to start the foreplay lol sometimes i dont clue in after like a week lol but i try hard for him because i know after birth hes not going anywhere near my vagina for six weeks lol
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Lexi tell hom he better get it while he can because he doesn't have to worry about knocking you up lol. Can't get preggers twice at the same time!
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Im totally opposite, my bf has to like force his way bcus i am not in the mood for sex but once its going i love it i just dnt knw why i dnt like the start of it. Dnt wrry girly sometimes u gotta change it up set the mood throw on some music from when u first started dating or something else to get him started. He'll givr in. My bf would Loooove if I was the one who came onto him.
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Haha that would totally suck!
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5609181 tn?1375332372
24 weeks not 14... Eh I'd hate to have to do over ten weeks haha
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5609181 tn?1375332372
We've only gone like a month so far and I'm 14 weeks now but before we conceived we had sex at least once a day. Now nothing... It takes a tole on our relationship and be doesn't get that I'm already feeling conscious about my body that his lack if affection for mr makes mr feel even worse about it.
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Mine completely stopped since I've been pregnant. I'm 31.5 weeks pregnant and we've probably had sex five times total, ads not once tried to get me off. (Always did before) He says it's because I'm always in pain and he dOesn't want to hurt me, but he doesn't even try! Idk makes me feel crazy unattractive even though he always says I'm beautiful and all that.....ehhh
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5609181 tn?1375332372
I wish he thought like that.. He's never gonna want sex though haha not for a long while I'm sure
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5604696 tn?1378685626
Im sorry hun. Luckily, i dont have that problem my bf is a beast lmao
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I think that's really messed up. I think its the most important time to make a lady feel beautiful and wanted, when she's pregnant. Next time he wants to do it, I would make up some excuse not too and see how he likes it.
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your not alone.
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