doc thinks its my fualt

[neasyc]

i was at doc this morning for my 1st visit after my miscarrage and the doc thinks i lost the baby because i got pregnant after only two periods i should have waited longer i felt bad enough with out that

[neasyc]

thanks dont know if it made any sence had my 2 daughters jumping on me at the sametime lol

[mgordon]

That made me feel quite emotional.  Couldn't of put it better myself

[neasyc]

yeh i think so i know i will never replace the baby i lost and i would never want to but we want more children even if this child had been born healthy we would have wanted more as soom as possiable the child we lost will always be part of our family and i know it will meet it again someday
i have greaved for it any probably always will but i think i knew from the start that this pregancy some how felt different not quite right not quite the same as the others so in my heart i think i was greaving from then i do feel emotionally ready i will alway love this baby it is another child of mine and will never be forgotten i dont want another child just to get over it we would love another child to extend our family i know that the samething could happen again their are not garentees in life but if that is what god has chossen for us so be it we have been blessed with 2 lovly daughters and could not ask for better but would love more if we can sorry for being so long winded could not stop writing lol

[mgordon]

Are you ready emotionally to try again?

[neasyc]

6 weeks that is what my doc said it is just that i thought i seen ovulation type cm last week but i must have been wrong we were two scared to do anythind incase it went wrong that soon

[mgordon]

I miscarried on 17th June and had a normal period about 6 weeks after it.

[neasyc]

great good luck keep my fingers crossed for you  we see you in a fortnight with  aBFP

[tarajanes]

Tell me about it,so frustrateing..going practice typing upside down,good thinking.i will keep you posted.

[neasyc]

my sister in law did not get a positive till shewas 8 weeks so i does happen i think you should test again when was your last misscarrage how how long does it take for your periods to return if you dont mind me asking

[mgordon]

We are trying actively.  I just waited till I had a normal period and then tried again.  Still no sign of period.  That's 2 I have missed.  My second one os 1 1/2 weeks late but still showing negative results.  haven't tried one since last week but when I have been pregnant before I neva get a positive result until just before I miscarry

[neasyc]

we will be waiting for yours hope you get good at typing up side down so you can let us know if you think you got it lol
no really it is unbleavable the things you do and some people who dont want to be pregant only have to look in the direction of one and they are pregnant and sail through it

[neasyc]

that relly is a lot of bad luck but you will suceed at least you know you can get pregnant are you trying again how long did you wait between miscarriages

[neasyc]

well the tired and sickness are good thing really get you pic next time a hod lots of scan with my daughters 1st one they thought was etopic but she was fine had 8 scan with her 2nd one i had 9 scans as she was so big i wanted a home birth but she was face up and 10lb  and arrived on her due date so they would not let me but kept a close eye on her size

[tarajanes]

I'll be watching for your positive posts girl. !!!!!!!!!

[neasyc]

thinks tara and you will be sucessful this time i know it

[tarajanes]

Well either yesterday or today im ovulateing,so been busy boinking.and hanging upside down like a bat...going to keep going though until i cant walk anymore just to be safe...

[mgordon]

I have had 3 miscarriages in a row and they have tested me and there's nothing wrong with myself or my partner.  Just bad luck.  The nurse at the hospital who specialises in miscarriages told me that aslong as I get one normal period then it was ok to start trying again as that's your body back to normal.  Depends how you coped with the loss emotionally.

[Leanna26]

I have such a strong feeling its a little girl ^_^ I have seen her twice, (they have been giving me tons of early ultrasounds... I go back on the 19th for a third one. I should be just over 9 weeks then.) This time Im gonna demand a pic, so I can look at her ^_^ We have been trying for 2 years, its been hard... lol pregnant 4 times, hell I feel like I have been pregnant for 2 years now, and Im just like Damnitt give me my baby already LOL. Im tired of being tired and throwing up!

[tarajanes]

Hey you will do it again.i know that feeling,when the doctors told me no chance of concieveing without ivf,i new that was load ****,i concieved once and have a lankey 14 year old.and  i can again,they were adiment, ( yeah cant spell ) i woud'nt,but hey it happened twice,one eptopic,one mc space of 8 months,so poppy **** to the doctors,when your ready you go for it girl...

[neasyc]

do you have any feeling as to what it is i just knew mine were girls i thought this time was a boy

[neasyc]

sometimes if you dont laugh you cry how are things with you this month any joy

[Leanna26]

LOL yes you are very very lucky. I am hoping for a girl myself for this pregnancy.

[neasyc]

yeh i know if it was not for my girls i dont know what i would have done i keep thinking i done it twice i do it again but sometimes it is easyer to belive than others

[tarajanes]

LOL, glad to see you can keep your spirits up...