more of a vent..

[steffie3040]

Well I'm 36w 4d.. i got into an argument about money with my parents and boyfriend earlier, and I finally lost it and flipped out..not to mention the pain I've been in with my back and lower area..but that was around noon. After some cooling down, and the pain eased up, I went to the babies room and got together my hospital bag. Well about 5pm my boyfriend pulled in (didn't even tell me he was otw home when he usually does) didn't come see me or anything. It's now 9:30pm and he has yet to say a single word. He watched me sit on the couch crying because of my back and didn't even ask if I was ok. This isn't the first time he's been a freakin child and immature like this.  He makes me feel invisible at the times when I need him most.

[Shirano]

You should say something. Maybe apologize for flipping out, don't apologize for what you said if you meant it but how you said. Just because we are pregnant and in pain does not mean we get to say things rudely and not apologize. After you apologize explain. How you feel when he treats you that way and let him know its not okay. I hope this helps.

[Bri_1985]

I agree with Shirano. He could be playing silent because he doesnt know if you're still upset or not and lets face it - money is like the number one cause of most arguements and its rough arguing with us pregnant women when we're in pain on top of it. Id be glad he did leave he was able to calm himself down. Appreciate that because some women arent that lucky.