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drs appts

Ok, so did you bf/hubby attend every single Dr appt? Or just the ones with ultrasounds?  My husband thinks I'm crazy for wanting him to come to my appt next week.  They are doing another ultrasound because baby was lazy last Dr visit.  He says he already has seen the baby.   I am frustrated because I think he should be there.  I understand he can only take off so much work. I would rather him come to the ultrasound than to a different appt where they will just measure or check me.  (im 23 weeks). He just doesn't want to come.  My question is... How many of your appts did your significant other come to?
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Just seen I wrote to all 3 appointments, I meant all 3 pregnancies. Which so only attended the 20 week ( sexing) scan.
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My boyfriend came to the major ones, like the heart beat and my two ultrsounds...everything else is just routine visits. That way he doesn't have to tale off work.
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3106038 tn?1346813169
My boyfriend went to every single one. It made me feel better that he got the hear all the same info as me and because it meant a lot to me to feel like I wasn't alone.
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This is my second pregnancy, so its different then a first because its more like were waiting for another person to be here. My husband works but went to the gender ultrasound appt of course. My daughter goes with me to every one
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3860275 tn?1358726110
My husband has only missed one appointment and thats because the doctors office only gave us 3 days notice and he had a meeting at work. He was really disappointed, but my mom went with me so I was not alone. I am also considered high risk because of my previous pregnancy, so he makes sure he goes just in case I were to get any kind of bad news he wants to be with me. I think everyone is different, so you can't force him to go but it is nice when they do.
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4047346 tn?1360896219
My other half i only make him come to scans and antenatal classes
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