Extremely embarrassing

[Lovemylittletyke]

I am pregnant for the first time and am nervous about giving birth because of my large/long labia majora. I've always been very self conscious about it and not only am I embarrassed and feel like I'm so different because I have this I'm also afraid it will make it even longer from having a baby. Anyone else have any similar situation or any advice or words of encouragement? I feel so gross because I have this :(

[KTowne]

Birth won't cause it to get any bigger, and I definitely don't suggest a c-section for that reason, I've had 2 and trust me the scar it leaves is worse than anything a vaginal delivery could do, and mind scar isn't even that bad.

[Jkrodgers]

Don't feel embarrassed by what your girly parts look like. When you deliver everyone's are messed up looking. Watch a birth on utube. Just when u think they can't get any more mangled then yup

[haisaramander]

Ive always been embarrassed by mine too but apparently its quite common. If your worried about labor making it bigger u should consider a c section. Thats.what im doing

[Jkrodgers]

Don't feel embarrassed by what your girly parts look like. When you deliver everyone's are messed up looking. Watch a birth on utube. Just when u think they can't get any more mangled then yup

[MamacitaTP]

I guarantee you that the doctor will have seen a woman with longer or bigger ones!

[Nina159]

Dont worry its ur body they seen it all mme after labor was the size of a baseball amd I aint kkidding very painfull they put to much meds wen they were.fixing me up after ;

[stacey10]

at least 50% of womens are like yours and its NORMAL the other 50% are the other way, the problem is that most women dont get to see alot of other womans vaginas and if they do see them in a magazine they are usually airbrushed you you think yours arnt normal but they are  :)

[KTowne]

Don't be embarrassed, doctors see hundreds of vaginas, they aren't going to remember yours by the time you leave, and they've seen it all, plus MUCH worse, trust me!

[Lissaleigh]

Don't be embarrassed!

[Lovemylittletyke]

The inner ones! Whichever that is lol!!

[vivi2013]

Majora /minora ** i was researching i guess they call it both ways ??

[Lovemylittletyke]

I'm not sure ill ever be comfortable about this with anyone besides my husband :(

[vivi2013]

I always questioned if i was normal becuz i dont have an large minora .. I though something was wrong with me !! Trust me u wont have any problems while delivering .. And if ur doc acts this way u should change doctors so u can be confortable !!

[breeanderson]

I hear that!! I'm glad that you feel better. It's completely understandable to feel that way! I hope you have a great rest of your pregnancy :)

[Lovemylittletyke]

You made me feel a lot better :) thank you! The joys of being a female I guess!!! Lol

[breeanderson]

My doctors have never reacted to mine, I'm surprised a doctor would be so unprofessional! My husband has always been supportive, even a bit intrigued LOL. Your body is something to be celebrated,  but I definitely know how you feel. I was paranoid how my husband would react the first time we were intimate, but he accepted me whole :) I'm positive a baby won't have any impact on it!

[Lovemylittletyke]

Ugh I just feel like I'm the only one and the doctors look at me like I'm deformed. It's always been this way

[breeanderson]

I'm positive baby won't change a thing down there. I know it's kind of embarassing, but a LOT of women have the same and it's nothing to worry about :)