hope it's okay to ask this here...strip club?

[Anonymousabc]

I know it would be the wrong form but you guys helped me a lot while pregnant. Bsby is 3weeks old (: Well I just wanna know if any of you ladies would let your man go to a strip club? My hubby turns 21 next month his plan is it get wasted with a buddy and go to a strip club. Honestly I'm hurt he's so excited about it. I just had his bsby! I already feel and look gross this isn't helping. You know what I did for my 21st had some cake! I was 9months pregnant and I have no urge at all to drink or club? Just curious about y'all opinions.

[lanestonsmommy]

Can't get over how people think that kind of stuff is fine..my man wants me and only me.no need to pay to see it when you've got it for free is what he says.so to answer your question,I know my man wouldn't go,bc I know he wouldn't want to.for his 21st he spent it with me and his family and that's what he told me he wanted to do when I asked..for our wedding he told me there would be no bachelor party bc he has a soon to be wife and baby that he cares more about than drinking or partying.hes told his friends he was done with that life a long time ago bc hes a grown man now and thats how its going to be.i do love my man.he is amazing!

[Anonymousabc]

Lol yea I don't Care about the movies and books but there is something about flesh that's different.  And I would go with him maybe be the dd for the night but no wife's aloud according to him and his 2 friend that's goin with him because it be weird apparently.not to mention that one of the other guys he's going with is is single and goes all the time and paid to take a girl home last time!

[MommyToBe4214]

I wouldn't.

[Sherbie93]

Only way I would get upset is if he was worrying more about that then his child. Its hisbirthday and I ununderstand he wants to go out and celebrate.I know he's coming back home to me.

[Anonymousabc]

I guess I Just don't get it because I have no want to see anyone else have naked and visit don't drink:/ unlike my husband who only wants to go places if there is liquor.  I already told him he's an adult he can do what he wants and I've kept my mouth shut since.  Im obviously not gonna tell him what he can and cant do.

[beckyy28]

He should want to spend his birthday with YOU

[wishes2891]

Never in a million years lol. My hubby knows I won't say a thing about books, magazines, or movies but I'm against him going somewhere there is actual touchable human girls. And he respects that is my line. I've also pointed out to him that if he could do it I could too and he's got a more jealous nature than me so he doesn't want that lol.

[mamanavarro]

I would be upset:/ but my husband has never been into those things .

[proudFTMTeTe]

I personally don't care if mines go cuz I trust him n ik he coming home to me some ppl feel different it is his 21st bday n just cuz u don't wanna party with him doesn't mean he shouldn't do anything but that's just my opinion

[bell11145]

Yeah I feel you I would be upset but all you could do is let him go you'll get your chance too..

[bell11145]

Yeah I feel you I would be upset but all you could do is let him go you'll get your chance too..

[mommylex]

I would.