family problem

[Nehemiah_Mommmy]

My oldest sister got pregnant with twin s when she was 15 going on 16. She mad at me because I'm going Thought the same problem but I'm just 17 and only having one. I would Thought she will be .my main support and talk to me but she don't talk to me at all We used to talked about everything . She now 24 with 3 kids and I Watching her kids for her and everything. I was her main sister that Watched them. But now she don't want to come to my baby shower, don't text nor talk to me. Last time I heard from her was when I was 20 weeks. I'm now 32 weeks. Everybody tells me she jealous and to leave it alone but I can't thats my favorite sister and I love my niece and nephews. I bearly see them Cause We don't talk. That's break my heart so bad.

[TeeTee15]

My best guess is that she wanted better for you and she is disappointed.  My little cousin got pregnant at 15 and I was disappointed and coildn't bring mysrlf to talk to her but I realized she needed me to support her and I came around. Don't stress about it too much she will come around. Congrats on your bundle of joy.

[jess1ca1995]

Tell her how you feel. She should be happy that you waited til your 17. And what not. But family shouldn't do that. Expecialy since she went through the same as you. Although I think you should let her know how you feel.