father less than exicited?

[danie410]

So I'm 23 and the mother of two. My daughter just turned 8 on the 16th and my son turned two in August. They have different fathers as I was very young when I got pregnant with my daughter. I was engaged to marry my sons father but shortly after my son was born my brother was killed in a car accident. That's when my fiance became a nightmare. I was supposed to just be OK and over it in a week. I wasn't suppose to help or be around my family. He even stated that I shouldn't be upset cause it wasn't like I was THAT close to my brother anyways. Needless to say we split up and after a year and a half of being single I started seeing my now boyfriend in march. We had an accidental pregnancy in July but we had an abortion. I got on birth control  and found out again recently that I yet again pregnant. I'm not sure how I feel I'll be 9weeks 2days  today. My boyfriend is less than thrilled to say the least. Ehhhhhh

[danie410]

I dont think I can mentally handle another abortion. I love him but if he does not want to be here then I'll do it alone. I told him this. He says it just doesn't seam real yet. Just frustrated. We used birth control I didn't miss any pills used condoms for the first month and a half of the birth control. I dont know why it failed I wasn't on antibiotics the only thing that I can figure is that when I had the stomach virus for a week it passed thru to quick to be active in my system. I'm not  looking forward to telling our families his mother will probably think that I trapped him and mine will have a smart added comment about me getting pregnant intentionally because my brothers girl friend and my daughters aunt are both expecting in the spring.

[shyloveskai]

If you want another abortion then do it, for yourself. If you dont and you want the baby oh well for him then you will have 3 beautiful children to care for.

[arrilove]

Well always remember do just keep a baby for the man thats your baby as well your string you can do it.dont have two abortions under your belt ...your child deserves life and you keep getting pregnant for a purpose you may not understand