finally did it

[crazymama78]

My sister dropped off one box of my ex stuff with a baby bottle on top. Inside was a hpt, note from Dr and note from me saying, sorry i had to tell you this way but i tried so many times to get you to talk to me. I am little over six weeks pregnant with your child. I felt you had the right to know. Well you know how to get ahold of me if you want to be a part of our lives. We all miss you... also congratulations on your fight daddy.
I had email his mom and she told me he won the mma fight and got the belt. I knew he would, just wish i could have been there :(
Now i wait. Glad that stress is over with. He did not try to contact me yet, but I'm sure he needs time for it to sink in. Pretty sure his mom knows also, he has been staying with her and my sister said she answered the door so she gave it to her. Bottle right on top. Hope she and knock some since into him.

[marajean21]

Im glad it's finally out. If you stick to your guns and don't contact him, ge should at least try to get ahold of you for the baby, but maybe after some time of you not attempting to contact him and just answering what you have to, he will realize hey, what's going on I don't even hear from this girl and barely get answers. Itll bother him enough for him to at least ask why you two don't talk and such. This is just a maybe..idk how or why your relationship ended, but if he loves you he should come back after whatever phase he's going through. The only advice I can give you is just what you said. Don't get your hopes up. Don't pursue it and if he comes back around be stoked inside but don't let him just pop right in like nothing happened.    Dont be too hard on him and make him prove himself over everything bc he will not find it worth it. Its all about balance. I really do hope the best works out for you.

[crazymama78]

Thank you. I really hope he wants to try us again, but not getting my hopes up. I still love him but think he does not feel the same, really don't want another broken family. Breaking my heart. I also don't want to be with out him. I want to just be happy

[marishaxoxo]

Happy for you that you can breath a little easier that this part is over. Stay positive mama xx