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stressing parents trying to control!!

My parents are trying to control everything! They are trying to push marriage onto me and my boyfriend. They are trying to tell me which last name to use for my baby etc. Idk what to do its aggravating me.
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Thank you :) i will def talk to them about it soon. Gotta get it off my chest.
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No me and my boyfriend live together and pay our own bills. I mean its not like me and mt boyfriend havent thought about getting married we just can't at the moment. Its stupid
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4715985 tn?1371582997
No matter how much they pester you, the point is this is your baby. You could turn around and make any decisions you want and they cant do nothing about it. Its annoying i know, but just ask them when they were pregnant did they like having theyre parents breathing down theyre necks?.....if they say yes then you need to seriously sit them down and talk to them. Youll be a great mom and if your parents dont believe that make sure you learn from there mistakes and dont repeat them when its your kids turn :)
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Do you live with them or are they paying your bills? If not it's none of their business how you run your life. Just say thanks for the input & move on.
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4456535 tn?1355894638
Sounds like my boyfriends aunts they decided what to nane the baby if its a boy and already have godfathers and where im suppose to give birth and they are "plannin a wedding" for my bf and me for when i turn 7months. Im currently 3months and i told them to chill the f*** out cause its my baby my decisions well boyfriends decisions too. You need to tell them you decide wat goes on and what doesnt
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My mom refers to MY baby as OUR baby! I know how you feel!! They were trying the whole marriage thing on me too. It wasn't happening! But I didn't want to be mean cause I know I'm gonna need her after my baby girl gets here its my first child by the way so it eventually died off.
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