freaking men!!!

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Urg I'm so mad at my baby to be father! We just got a puppy.... and its still learning to be house trained but he won't get off his lazy butt to help me take care of it just keeps telling me ur the one who wanted it .... well ur the one that didn't pull out... and ur not the one pregnant. . is how I'm feeling about now

shib181 · Answer

You both obviously wanted it if he wasnt pulling out and you wanted it he obviously did too.. But its not healthy for either of you to fight about who choose the baby it may cause resentment. Maybe if you guys can't handle the puppy you should re home it

OctoberBaby5 · Answer

Lol^

PonsGirl · Answer

Yeah my hubby and I joke about it to. He's like well I'm not the one who wanted it you raped me and then we both end up laughing

OctoberBaby5 · Answer

I guess it is for me bc i would never say that nor would my hubby he actually does everything for our dog I just fill up his plate lol and I meant kinda right as in it would be nice if he helped but he doesnt necessarily have to all the time but you cant really compare a dog to a baby (not that anybody was)

MrsAmySanchez · Answer

I don't think that was so awful to say..when im complaining my husband says "your the one that opened your legs" I tell him hes the one who did it inside of me, couples just do that when their arguing we end up laughing about that instead

mommyteonna · Answer

Oh no no no, I disagree. I feel you completely. And yes I understand how you feel. Around 20 weeks pregnant I hit depression and wanted a cat. Now being pregnant I can't change the kitty litter. my fiance Bought the cat for me and changes the litter. Never once do he throw in my face that I'm the one who wanted it. He understands the wishy-washy-ness of pregnancy. And if he had tried throwing it in my face I would have told him the same thing you told your man. Yeah it takes two to have sex but if a man don't want to be supportive of his pregnant women, don't want to be understanding and help her to the best of his ability. Then yeah he could have pulled out. Just as using a rubber, birth control or abortion.

OctoberBaby5 · Answer

I agree with mreeah thats an awful thing to say and if youre the one who wanted it hes kinda right lol

Mreeah · Answer

Im sorry, but that is a really awful thing to say "youre the one who didnt pull out" 
What about, both of you chose to have unprotected sex? 
It takes two lol