getting called fat.

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Is nt cool. With this pregnancy I went from 130 to 180 & counting I dnt think I'm fat. I mean I am bt its cuz I'm pregnant. My body just looks nasty n ugh! Wish tht rude comments wudnt get to me bt thy do. Someone saw my arms n said woah u been working out I said no. N thy said u can't let urself go work out do something I'm like umm ok n ran inside my house to cry.

darthmander · Answer

I feel horrible about myself :/ I feel like I a am an ompa loompa bc I'm short and round. All I am is belly and nothing else I feel horrible I have never felt this big ever. I have issues with my body. Being called fat all my life it ***** and feels that every where I go I get staired at and not in a good way. I feel you. But you are going to go back to being the tiny you.

rachealhoskins · Answer

Your sooo lucky hun i wish i could gain weight im 21 weeks and i have not even gained a pound and it makes me feel like im doing something wrong your not fat none of you are yall are pregnant and beautiful

caylas10 · Answer

@celi that's just rude! I went from 130 to 190 with my first. 130 to 160 with my second and I'm 132 right now at 16 w worth my third and that's what I started at. Everyone and every pregnancy is different. No need to make anyone feel worse!

newmama21 · Answer

Screw what people say I LOVE FOOD, if anyone wants to call me fat they are gunna get b*****d out big time, I'm getting big, but I have also never felt more beautiful this life I'm creating is a gift and NO ONE is going to make me feel shameful of it in any way

Jazzylovesgato · Answer

Theres always gotta be someone with a smart comment. We're all saying how sad we are about our weight and u saying 50 poundsce is alot is nt cool I didnt say oh can someone tell me if I gained alot of weight. I cant help but love food my bad @celi_

Alexiafaye · Answer

^ everyone is different and 80 percent of my weight is from water retention due to pre eclampsia. So..

celi_palomo · Answer

You are only supposed to gain 25-35 lbs while pregnant. 50Lbs is alot

NathansMommyy · Answer

I feel yu i use to weigh 170...now i weigh 250 and im 36wks pregnant .. yea thats fat!!! I feel gros and disgusting. Dont listen to any of them. We will losse it all eventually,

Alexiafaye · Answer

Aw don't worry honey you aren't alone. I'm 4'11 and went from 132 to 180 as well and I'm gaining more and more. My stretch marks are about a centimeter wide and deep and go up all the way past my belly button. They wrap around my back and go down my thighs, down into my nether region and tbh I have stretch marks coming out of my butt crack. It doesn't get worse lol! You're beautiful and it's all for your cute little babydoll

shawnastone · Answer

I got called fat from my boyfriends friend. I was so hurt. im 37wks pregnant, ovb im not thin. but like hell im fat.

Kairilove · Answer

I know how you feel, their wrong though, i was at the store and i politely asked this lady to move over so i could squeeze by cuz she was in the middle of the isle and she's all or you could just go around fat *** and i was like uhhh okay?? She was shaking and obviously withdrawing from some kind of drug and like 80 pounds...i made sure she knew it was obvious she was on drugs lol

Jazzylovesgato · Answer

The best part of my body tht I was most proud of was my stomach it was soo nice now its full of stretch marks. My legs are too n im coming dwn with back acne its not cute. All I wanna do is cry n hide but I wudnt have it anyother way if my babys healthy give me another stretch mark thts how I keep myself up bt just sometimes like today I just broke dwn

Aqsash · Answer

They say the same to me aswell even though I dont look fat I just look healthier bcz I was very week before pregnancy.they say comments like ur backside is too big r u carrying the baby in there! Well my bottom is not that big but I still get them nasty comments i hate it!

Krystara · Answer

I gained 50 while pregnant and my boyfriends family used to be like oh it's the telly tubby , you look huge , and everytime someone would say you have a cute belly they'd be like oh no she has a ton of stretch marks . I hate then all :/

kdpd · Answer

I know its hard. And in this emotional state its easier for people to get to us. Try not to listen as best you can. And find things to keep your mind off people. Clear your head by reading books, light some lightly scented candles and soak your feet. Some people can be cruel without meaning to. Those types of people will back iff if you let them know their words hurt.

rachyrach314 · Answer

I feel the same way. I just keep gaining weight! But its all worth it and when our precious baby gives us our bodies back to ourselves, we will lose all the weight again. I know exactly how you feel though

Jazzylovesgato · Answer

I knw bt with this pregnancy my legs arms everything just looks nasty. With my first baby I didnt get like this. I knw I shud look at it like im creating life cuzz I am bt its hard looking in the mirror n confirming wht ppl say abiiut me

kdpd · Answer

Dont listen to them.  You're in the process of creating a beautiful baby. Thats a tiresome job that'll take its toll on any woman. Im gaining a large amount of weight as well. Be proud of your body and the miracle it is creating! You are beautiful no matter what!!