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[LadyLynch]

Have any of you had a girl be super mean to you while your prego? I had a girl tell me "You're going to gain 70lbs and be a fat ugly pregnant woman." I was only 14 weeks along and I was so hurt and upset, she said it outta nowhere, we were at work and talking about the boxes we were unpacking then she just spat that out. That was one of many things she said or did to me while I was pregnant with my son. I felt great my whole pregnancy I was all belly gained 40lbs and got back down below my prepregnancy weight about 6 months after I had my son. My son is now 14 months old, I am 12w 5d, and she is 23w pregnant. Well yesterday she called me balling her eyes out because she has very bad achne, has gained a lot of weight, is very swollen, is getting stretch marks all over her boobs and hips, and her hubby makes fun of her haveing no ankles. I have been nothing but nice and supportive (which is why she calls me when she needs a vent) but as bad as it sounds I feel like she made her own karma and is now having to deal with it. Have any of you had to deal with a girl like that?

[LadyLynch]

Lol. I would never tell her but i'm so happy she knows how it feels now. One of the thing she told me all the time was that I was pregnant not disabled (I can't life things over 25lbs with my sholder and somehow when I got pregnant I couldn't lift it because "I was prego") Her husband tells her that all the time now and she cries almost evry time. I feel bad but you make your own bed...

[PriceFamily91611]

That's funny!!!! That's what she gets

[LadyLynch]

Our husbands are very good friends, they were in the USMC together, so I try very hard to be nothing but nice to her. I don't want to make their friendship hard, they have been through some things I could only imagine. For a while all her and I did was fight and it made it really hard on our husbands so now I just ignore all of the crap she says or does, put on a happy and keep my mouth shut. She doesn't have a lot of friends so I think thats why she runs to me when she needs someone.

[KTowne]

Hahah, yes!!!! I was telling my sister I've only gained 7-8lbs and I'm 22 weeks, so doing WAY better than I did with my first, and she said "well you probably didn't lose it all from your first." UGH Some people just don't think!!! I can't believe she'd come to you crying after the things she said to you!! Too funny, sometimes I think people need to experience pregnancy before they can comment on what it's going to do to you!