having a little girl!

[Lizzthagrizz]

And my mother in law is trying to take over everything. I'm very small for 22 weeks, but my weights and baby is healthy...she's constantly nagging about how little I am. Part of it I think is that she just wants to see a big baby belly and the other I think is because she wants to have something to complain about. Advice?

[ultimas2314]

I was small when I was pregnant you couldn't till I was till I was about to deliver and my daughter was 6 PDS 13 oz I'm only 5 ft tall sometimes your jus all baby and I had low fluid which isn't good but I didn't know till I got induced at 41 weeks so don't stress if your doctor says your OK then baby is normal

[dreamland21]

My mother in law is the same way, always in our business no matter what

[Roxxxy915]

lol hilarious Vanessa621

[Vanessa621]

That is really annoying, last time my boyfriend's mother said I eat to much of something that I always crave and that my baby is going to be fat and I replied "yea, like her grandmother" it really bothered me with her saying that but I rather say something back and make her feel bad also. After that my boyfriend followed up telling her to mind her business and that she's always worrying about people's life to worry about hers. After that she hasn't said nothing.

[sophie922]

Mother in laws are like that lol mines the same way!  Its just cause she loves and and wants you abd the baby to be healthy!  Mine doesn't just nag about food I have 3 kids and one on the way she constantly nags aabout everything she just wants to make sure my kids have what they need!  

[Lizzthagrizz]

Thanks guys! Just needed a little validation to ignoring her..hahaha

[jessicam1294]

I would just ignore her. That's what I'm learning to do now with my mother and father in law they keep telling me I'm eating too much and always making comments about my weight but as long as my baby and I are healthy that's all that matters to me.

[Deekie]

Tell her that neither you or the baby need negative comments made and of she can't learn to keep her comments to herself you don't want her around

[african_mama_bear]

My in law was the same with my daughter she nagged bout me not eating enough it was really annoying especially since my doctor said we are fine and healthy i just ignored her really lol she can talk all she wants but cant force anything or bring her to an appointment with you thats what i do when she complans even complained bout my daughter being too big took her to her doctor appointment and the doctor put her in her place now she dont say anything with this pregnancy