Commutting suicide.

[maisarahkatlee]

I'm 20 years old from Singapore and i'm 5 months pregnant with my boyfriend. We're not married. And my family still doesn't know that i'm pregnant. An hour ago, i send my boyfriend a long text message saying that I'm ready to tell my family everything this saturday and wish he would come with me to my house and break the news together with me. And he replied me "No way." I immediately broke down crying. I admit that we were actually planning to have an abortion when i first found out that i'm 2 weeks pregnant. Because we both don't have a proper job as we couldn't even feed ourselves 3 meals a day so how can we afford to have a baby? But now that i'm 5 months pregnant, its a high risks for me to have an abortion, i know. And throughout this whole 5 months of carrying my child with me in my womb everywhere i go, i really feel connected with it but my boyfriend is still against about keeping this baby. I'm really stress. I feel like committing suicide.

[blessed_mommaandwife]

Please don't make any rash decisions! And don't let anyone judge u for your thoughts most of the time it's not even really u thinking. Just ask God for peace and to put his thoughts in your mind and his words in your mouth when it comes to talkin to anyone. Just talk to God and tell him how u feel. He has understanding and peace that surpasses all understanding!!! He loves u and the baby he is forming within u!! Maybe start by tellin one family member that's easy to talk to and have them help u tell the rest. Then find u a good Christian based support group to help u thru. God bless your in my prayers!!

[MommasAngel14]

Suicide is never the answer. You will hurt a lot of people & take your babys life as well. You can get on wic if you can't afford food for baby. It provides milk eggs cheese cereal fruits etc. For you & formula once baby is born so baby is taken care of. You just need crib diapers wipes etc. & if you can't afford that you can go to a local church & ask for help or look on craigslist for cribs & playpens that are cheaper & affordable. People are willing to help. Youre not alone.

[Kelseymichelle]

Your boyfriend has no control over your body and this baby. You need to tell your family whats going on so that you can get the emotional support you need. At five months it would be very very hard to find a doctor willing to do an abortion and in most places its against the law after about 20 weeks, so you are going to have to carry out this pregnancy. You need to tell your doctor about how feel and you may need medical help for feeling suicidal. Hormones can make us overwhelmed and being in a bad situation makes it worse. Remember that you have control over what happens and you do not need him in the picture to have or raise a child. tell your family so that you can have the support you really need right now.

[lydc]

You really don't need him around you right now if he is not there to support you. Pregnancy is a very emotional time for women even if your married or single. Your family will prob support you more than you think. I was 18 when I feel pregnant on my first and my boyfriend like yours didn't want it but I kept her and wouldn't have changed a thing about the whole thing. She is the most important thing in my life now. Don't worry girl you can do this :-)chin up. Wish you all the best <3 x

[susanna1215]

I will pray for you because I know God will not give you a baby if you cant afford it ... that's you're blessing and your baby its important not what you're boyfriend thinks if you're boyfriend its not giving you support you don't need him you're baby needs you and who are you to take you're life ? Only God can take your life !!! Please think and don't do something that its not worth it over somebody that doesn't care I will pray for you and I wish you the best ... you can do this there's a lot of places where you can get support you just need to get information !!!

[mrsissa622]

Sometimes the hardest choices are the best choices telling your family maybe hard for you at the moment but it could be a doorway opening that you may have never knew. take that first step. get the support you need. talk to them. You are far more precious then you can began to realize. Godbless you!

[YoungLadyDay14]

Be strong dear and try to take things one moment at a time. I would definitely talk to ur family. It will be hard but it's not impossible. There's assistance & programs that u can start applying to now to help. Try not to stress & no that both ur life & the life u are carrying is a gift. I wish you well!

[juno92]

I'm sorry if I sound harsh but you need a reality check. No human being should ever have such a hold on your emotions. If you want this baby then what your boyfriend thinks shouldn't matter. Right now the only thing that matters is that baby growing inside you. If you want to tell your parents/family then do it.He doesnt need to be there if he doesn't want to. And if he isn't supportive then maybe you need to rethink your relationship and possibly prepare to be a single mom. Hopefully he comes around and you get the support you need but suicide is not the answer just because you're going through a tough time. Especially when there's someone else's life on the line. I wish you all the best and hope your situation works out.

[proudFTMTeTe]

Just because r bf doesn't want to tell them does not mean u need to commit suicide u never let a man get u that low its not worth it u have a blessing growing inside u that needs u ti b strong an adult if he can't man up o well leave him ur baby should be all ur worried about a man will come n go but ur child will always be there for u no matter wat!!!

[KeKeMcneil]

It's better to tell your family they may be very supportive just pray before you tell them everything is going to work out fine you shouldnt feel down and your boyfriend is spposed to support you either way