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Hate sex

I'm 20 weeks . is it normal hating sex ?
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I'm 24 weeks and I lost my sex drive too and sometimes I don't even feel like being touched bij my bf. I know that for him it is a real struggle I think our last time is over 6 weeks.
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I haven't been in the mood since the night I conceived... Im 18 weeks now.
I have kind of a low sex drive to begin with though.
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I'm 36 weeks and I have had no sex drive all pregnancy..but I still make my husband happy..:)
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My whole first two trimesters I had no sex drive and couldn't wait for my boyfriend to get done whenever we had sex and would get irritated if he was taking too long lol. Now, in my third trimester my sex drive has come back, thank god. Sex gets a little awkward once you get bigger though. I was always so thin and now I'm 32 weeks and starting to get a belly and I feel kinda self conscious when we're having sex:( also there will be some positions that arent comfortable anymore do you have to try out what works
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Those who have a sex drive enjoy it! I don't have one  plus it hurts extremely bad if we do try. My husband is a champ
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Lucky. I'm always wanting to have sex my drive has gotten up but he feels like he hurts the baby or its too much for me to do when I've assured him it's great to have sex during pregnancy and when we do it feels amazing and he says he loves it and so it makes me want it even more but he still gets scared. I'm 24 weeks btw.
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These posts are making me so nervous. I'm 15 weeks and my boyfriend and I have sex regularly and it feels amazing, if anything my sex drive has gone up and I hope it stays this way.  I'm sorry, hope it starts to feel better soon. I know if we go too long without having sex it'll start to hurt so maybe try doing it a little more often? And make sure he goes really slow
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Thank you ladies I will try to be better
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Tell him to take it easy. Do it once a week for him for everything we put him through. Its not the only thing they want but they do like it.
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B. J
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I give my bf a ** sometimes (sorry for tmi)
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The last time my husband and I had sex was back in February. I have no drive to it and I'm feeling bad about it. He told me it's ok but I know he is not . What can I do ???
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I pretty much do too. I'm 22 weeks and we have sex maybe twice a week and I'm usually just looking forward to it to end I have no sex drive anymore!
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