Missed Miscarage

[speck2677]

I recently found out that my baby died 3 weeks ago I just found out today when I went in for an ultrasound, I have yet to bleed. How long did it take after you found out your baby died to start to bleed? My doctor said if I don't start to bleed with in a week that they can give me a pill that will help it and if that doesn't work then I will have to get a DNC. I have no idea what to except Please help.

[chelsgr87]

They put you under. It is very quick and physically painless.  Don't be afraid of the DNC.

[chelsgr87]

I found out my baby died 2 weeks before I found out.  I was 11 weeks and my ultrasound showed a 7 week fetus with no heartbeat. I actually was spotting for a month and just praying I was gonna be the 50% who's baby makes it.  But I started miscarrying later that night and had a DNC the next morning.  So already you have gone longer than me, I guess everyone is different.  Sorry for your loss but if it makes you feel better I now have 2 kids expecting my 3rd just 4 yrs later.  Everything happens for a reason.  Good luck.

[speck2677]

Thank you all for you support.

[twomomstwogirlsandaboy]

Yes they put you under there is discomfort after.my dr put me on pain meds.  But it helped with the emotional healing.  Stay strong. And lean on any body who is willing to give you emotional support.  

[yeagerbomb]

I miscarried in between my oldest son and my youngest and o didnt know i was pregnant i started bleeding really heavy i thought it was my period and i was having very bad pains and i was peeing blood i went to er and they tested my urine and said i was pregnant they drew blood and told me i was around 8weeks and it was entopic pregnancy i went for a dnc a week later they put me under and when i woke up i was in soo much pain i went home same day

[Pequenomom]

I an a mother of 2 with #3 on the way. I miscarried between my first 2 at 9 weeks and tried to wait it out and finally had a d&c two weeks later. They put me under and it was pretty quick the days after are kind of a blur but i went home the same day. I'm so sorry for your loss.

[Pequenomom]

I an a mother of 2 with #3 on the way. I miscarried between my first 2 at 9 weeks and tried to wait it out and finally had a d&c two weeks later. They put me under and it was pretty quick the days after are kind of a blur but i went home the same day. I'm so sorry for your loss.

[cindy82]

It's not to bad. They put you to sleep. You will have a little cramping and bleeding afterwords

[crstl11]

Sorry for ur loss hun.

[speck2677]

I am so afraid of a DNC, I want this over with asap but im so afraid at the same time of having a DNC. do they put you under? Does it hurt?

[twomomstwogirlsandaboy]

I am so sorry for your loss. I had the same thing 2 years ago but I opted to just have the dnc as waiting for a miscarriage was too hard for me.  Best of luck you will be in my thoughts I hope all goes well.

[cindy82]

I had found out back in 07 that I had a missed miscarage. I was 9 weeks when I found out baby never developed passed 4 weeks. I never had pain or bleeding or anything.i finally had to have a dnc when I was little over 11 weeks. Sorry for your loss :(

[Shirano]

I did not bleed for two months after but I never went back to the doctor just let it lay out however I would not do that again.

[acline93]

I'm so sorry for your loss hun. I can only imagine that the loss of a child would be horrible. Praying for you and your family.

[speck2677]

bump

[speck2677]

I would have been 11 weeks on Thursday. and no signs it was a big shock.  

[Francis1029]

I'm sorry for your loss how far along were you, u don't have any signs??