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[biscuitbobber]

Hi I am a ftm and am 6.3 weeks. I have had miscarriages before from stress and my partner just keeps talkin to me horribly he is makin me want to do this on my own as I am scared the arguments are goin to harm the baby. I dont no what to do as talkin to him just doesnt work. Help!!

[mommyof3plus2otw]

Your welcome....you just do what you have to do to keep yourself and baby safe. Maybe you guys just need to put some space between yourselves until after the baby is born. Guys act out in all sorts of ways when they find out they're going to be dads. It could be that or he could just truly be an a**hole. No one knows your relationship like you do so in the end no one can really tell you what's right for you except you. Just do what you feel is right.

[biscuitbobber]

Thanks for the advice. Really needed some advice as I dont really have much support at home woth famoly and friends. X

[mommyof3plus2otw]

If it's possible it may be best to just remove yourself from the situation. What it sounds like to me is that he doesn't really have you or baby's best interest at heart right now if your constantly reminding him of the stress it's causing you and he continues to do it. Just do what you feel is best for you and baby.