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So pissed!

So I am a single mom because my son's father is not a good influence at all so I get a call today to watch the news and I do what would you know my baby daddy is on there wanted for armed robbery!! I just don't understand him that's why I said my son will be better without him that's just embarrassing smh, I swear the only thing good about him was the fact he gave me my son! Sorry just needed to vent.
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Thanks ladies for the words of encouragement its hard not to love someone that you have a child with but I'm not in love with him I just wish he would get his life together for him but I got to raise my son since he obviously can't.
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7566904 tn?1394763978
It's hard not to love someone :( I'm sorry things are like they are. Maybe it'll get better
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I totally understand how u feel girl. U need to do whats best for u and ur baby..im 13 weeks pregnant and my babies father got caught talking to other women on facebook and was sending inapropriate pics. He was in drug rehab when the girl he was talking to got ahold of me. He is home now and it ia so hard to try to make it work with him. I want to for our kids sake but our happiness is worth more then staying with someone who doesnt deserve to be in our lives. I really hope things get better for u and u make the beat decsions not only for ur child but for urself as well. Good luck and chin up!
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*pray
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I can guess how your feeling hun, my ex waited until I was over 3months pregs to tell me about his extremely shady past. And is now acting like im the bad guy and constantly insulting me. Then the other night he sent me a message saying that hes not gonna be in the babies life and thats my fault. I feel horrible enough about the fact that, even though I tried to make it work, I couldnt. But now im at the point where I want to tell him to go **** himself and never speak to me or my baby again. I know that he is back into drugs since the breakup and considering its not just weed, I dont think I ever want him around my baby.
But at least these ****heads have given us beautiful little people to cherish and love. And I totally understand the need to vent, sometimes all you wanna do is yell and scream but coz of bubs we dont. Stay strong and proud of all you are and can do.
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I hope you be OK your not alone but just bray baby doll itel be ok
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I'm trying to figure that out myself in some ways I feel I kinda still do but I can't stand him because he cheated on me twice shock is why we're not together :/
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7566904 tn?1394763978
You still love him? Really its none of my business but it seems like you do.
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7566904 tn?1394763978
I'm so sorry :(
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I feel kinda down to know this is the person I was once in love with this is my son's father smh I'm a wreck right now
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6765322 tn?1395814235
Wow how crazzy to see that on tv . Im sorry girlie you will be ok. Im glad u realize he was no good on time. How you feeling are you going be ok when he gets caught?
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