Thought my baby father would care but somethings never change

[mushie156]

I'm 35+5 my baby is still breech I haven't talked to my baby father in a good month... I decided to text him today and let him know wats going on I might have to get a c section... He didn't care just said text that other nigha.... Smh... I dont know why i expected him to care he hasnt before since I told him I wa pregnant.... I can't deal but I still do care for him but would never want a relationship with him again.... He hurt me so bad with the lies cheating.... He wants me but not the baby.... I deserve better I know this... so fed up i.will no longer reach out to him not even to tell him baby alana is here for he dont care.... But why does it still hurt??

[mommyofaria]

My baby daddy is the same way haven't been here all six months really...just in and out...so I've decided from now on I'm doing him.exactly like he does me...I'm not answering his calls or texts not letting him know when doctor appointments are...nothing...I'm sick of putting up with him....it will get easier...I thought I would love mine forever too but now I could give a flying hoot...I just thank him for giving me my first child...my beautiful daughter that will be here in October :)

[Raevicious]

Ugh girl I know how you feel. My bd told me to abort, disappeared, and then about a month ago he hit me up trying to get some booty and flipped out when I said I'd rather see him as a parent and not a lover and disappeared again. Sent me an email last week sayin she would be better off being adopted. Boys never change

[mushie156]

Some guys just never grow up

[KyleniasMommy]

Also my daughters real father hasnt seen her in months he hasnt bought anything for her but its okay were still making it.

[mushie156]

Thank you summer

[KyleniasMommy]

He gave you an angel its even going to hurt after you get married to someone else. My daughter is 9 months old && i went through the same thing im married to another man who loves my daughter more than anything im now having his baby itll get better with time trust me your a strong woman show him your better off<3

[mushie156]

Your right thanks so much.... Can't say I haven't tried and I'm tired of crying thinking it would change... I don't want him I just want my daughter to know her father

[summero87]

It hurts still because as a female we think with our emotions not to mention if u really loved him u can't just stop ..unfortunately you'll always probably feel somethin for him but with time it'll be easier to get over ..sad he acting like that with a innocent baby though you're a very strong woman from the sound of it so kudos to u for hanging on even through the hard stuff ..of u wanna talk u can inbox me here also ..hang in there an I hope ur lil one turns in time :)

[babyinJuly]

It would hurt me if my babies father treated me like that, but your right if he don't have anything nice to say I'd just forget about him and carry on. It's normal to be hurt, and your pregnant so that makes it more hurtful. But baby may flip, mine did after 36wks. Don't give up hope. It's his loss and your gain!