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Please someone help me

sex isn't the same...it's not even him, it's me. I just don't feel horny. I love him and I like to make love but i just don't feel turned on by anything at all...they say some women get turned on more and wanna have sex more while they're pregnant and that's not me. And when I do Have sex I feel like my vagina is extra tight and Idk why. Can someone tell me why? Sorry for the Tmi...
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I'm not in the mood 90% of the time. And when I am, sometimes he isn't. And when he is, I'm not. And sometimes when we do, we have to stop because it hurts too bad. I feel bad. But he understands. But I still feel bad.
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I feel exactly the same way and im only 9w. I feel horrible about it but no matter how hard i try im not in the mood
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Not all women get horny while pregnant some women prefer not to be touched at all some find sex uncomfortable and painful it doesn't mean that anything is wrong with you just find other ways to be intimate with your significant other
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Same here. The "tight" feeling is just because you aren't aroused and so you don't open as much as you would if you were aroused. I personally haven't orgasmed while pregnant other than in first trimester, with both my pregnancies. I get the desire for sex occasionally but I just can't get into it when we do it. Emotionally it's satisfying but not physically. Frustrating for sure.
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I'm 100% the exact same way! I can't get turned on its really frustrating
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Women are all different. I haven't been into sex much ans had ghat tightening also. Hormones affect women differently. It's ok honey don't feel alone!
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