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i hate life anymore :(
Venting Ok so I'm 18 weeks and the baby's daddy broke up with me. I'm living with him and so stressed I cry every day. I can't live with my parents because they are worse. They make me feel like ****. But being called names and having to deal with him is driving me crazy.
In your same boat! The lesser of two evils at this moment is your parents. I hate that I'm at my parents house and not with him the man I was suppose to have a family with but its better than the stress you are going through there. My parents have had rude comments since day one when I moved back I at 12 Weeks about me being pregnant and how I should've known how I got myself in this mess etc. no support. Just stay strong. contact a family member or friend you can vent to when needed. My cuz listened to me everyday. If you here no once which I didn't at the beginning we are here. The only thing that keeps me from throwing in the towel bc of him, the lack of support from my parents, oh did I mention I lost my job at 5 months as well but the inky thing that keeps me going its this little girl. And in just a few short Weeks for you are going to feel baby more and find out the sex if you haven't. Just be you and this baby against the world! Baby needs you. Its okay to cry btw it releases the stress you are feeling. I went along time crying. Still cry every few days but it will get better. Do things that makes you happy. Oo one thing at night I do to avoid tears is I just there and think about how I'm going to design her nursery. I don't know if she'll have One at this point with nothing but its relaxing. Need anything just a message away.
What is it with coward men that cheat/leave you while you're pregnant?!?! I'm in that same boat ladies - screw umm!! Hun you can't get over him if you've gotta live with him!! I know its tough and you're heart broken but you've got to find any and every reason, to get out of that house!! Even if its just for the day, you need peace of mind and so does your baby. Are you religious?!?! If not, then today is a good day to start - seriously! You need as much peace and support as you can get right now. Be strong - this is the stuff MOTHERS are made of.
I'm really sorry to hear that. Do you have a job and/or can you afford a place on your own? Maybe you have other family or a really good friend who can help you until you get back on your feet. It's not healthy to be in that kind of mentally abusive situation, pregnant or not. I hope you are able to find a better situation soon and best of luck.
I've been trying to get over him for 2 months now and there is no progress. I just cry. I don't have a life
Yes I agree please try to find somewhere else to go try someone else that you are close to and see if they would let you stay there with them for now you don't need the stress I'm so sorry that you have to go through that but pray about it and have faith things will get better. I wish you the best and things get better for you. Prayers goes up, blessings comes down as long as you believe..
Im so sorry u can't turn to your parents in this. Im 31 weeks and the babydaddy left me at 15 weeks. Well he cheated lol but either way he was gone and I haven't talked to him in over 2a months. I know how u r feeling but I can also say it will get better. Some how some way u learn to deal. I don't exactly know how but it happens slowly. Be strong. Its going to take your strength to get thru this. Just talk to your parents or maybe another family member and see if any of them can help u temporarily. Its worth a shot.
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