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4464092 tn?1355189185

i cant do this anymore..help

It's sad that this is where I go when I need help. I'm 30 weeks. I just want this baby out of me. I feel likeshe will be better taken care of outside of me by someone else. Docs, etc. Then a loving adoptive family. I'm homeless, overly depressed and way to stressed out. I don't want to be pregnant. I just want to get ****** up and forget about life :'( I feel like giving up. Idk how much longer I can do this. I wish there was a way to have this baby already and just be done with absolutely everything and everyone. I wanna crawl in a corner and just never wake up.
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4484425 tn?1384228334
I know things can seem bleak but you need to hang in there for the baby's sake. There have to be groups in your state that help pregnant women. Check out churches, community centers, clinics. Someone should know of recources that can help you.
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4368956 tn?1357406071
Look up anti abortion centers in your area, they usually have a toooonnn of resources. And free sonograms.
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4368956 tn?1357406071
My friend got denied 6 times before she got approved. You got to do it over and over. Do u work? If not you have zero income do not put your boyfriends if your not married dont give his information at all.
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4281488 tn?1353905580
Keep trying dont give up!! Like another gal suggested try a church they may have other avenues to help you or get you approved for housing.
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4464092 tn?1355189185
I've already tried to get insurance and housing got denied several times. I'm in nc and they suck here.
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2168213 tn?1357062544
you are a beautiful lady and ur baby will need u when he/she comes out..if u think u want the baby adopted and cant take care of him/her you can go to Pregnancy Resource Center.. they are the best place to go to a loving Christian community that will help you. Hang in there..wil be praying for you dear..
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3224409 tn?1356206827
I am so sorry you are going through such hard phase of life.. i dont know what your condition is right now but it sounds serious... usually in UK our midwives always ask us if we depressed or going through problem at home and they offer us help.. with homeless people they provide shelter homes and during pregnancy they provide with food money etc... also they provide you a counciller to speak to...
i am not in bad condition.. i m ftm my husband works and we have very small house.. i m always in pain and depressed as i cant go to sleep.. there are so many times i feel baby should come early but then i pray for his health and pray that he comes on his own time.. being a mother its very hard at one point you dont want to go through pregnancy but on second you always know what bests for your child.. i m 30wks as well.. dont give up now.. u r almost there just few more weeks and you ll be fine.. once you ll see that tiny smile and that beautiful face you ll forget your sorrows..

take care i hope you feel better.. try asking for help from government.. i m sure they ll have something for u ...
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AWWW so sad frm ur pics it looks like u love being prego and would be a wonderful mom!!! i knw its hard but u r almost there i dnt knw ur situation but every one has a story its  up to u to make the chapters and the ending.. i have 5kids my oldest is 9 and my youngest is 8weeks im 29 i wrk full time take care of my kids and go to school we all live in a 2bedroom its n ot the biggest or nicest place but my home is filled w nothing but love.. there is no greater feeling to feel the love u feel whn its coming frm ur own child.. i live penny to penny bill to bill paycheck to paycheck and its hard very hard i also wana give up sometimes but then i look to the sky and i laugh... god will not give us mre then we can handle and boy do i wake up everyday telling myself that i thnk u already have a bond w ur bby like i said in ur pics u can c u r happy so i hope and pray whtever ur going threw will bypass soon.. if its just u and ur bby u can look for a one bedroom maybe even a studio apt or find a shelter i knw the ones in texas even help u find a place and a job there is a lot of help for single mothers even child care while u continue ur education..plz dnt give up on urself or ths precious baby remember u get to make the chapters of ur life and noone eles and u can do it..... plz keep us updated
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3828469 tn?1358462325
I agree church is definitely a place to turn. They will help you get to the right place
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2206560 tn?1354296704
I agree with niki there has to be state ins or someplace that offers help n counseling. U are not the only one going though this u changer help and feel better once u talk to someone ....... Where are u from
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It's not about you anymore this is another life - give them your best, sort yourself out for their sake! Stop feeling sorry ffor your self and go and get help! You can do this!! Sorry to be harsh but you are the best person for them to be around, don't quit them before they are even born. Go to a church and say "I need help" they will sort you out

All the best!
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4589197 tn?1375223396
You should be able to get health insurance during your pregnancy, have you checked with your local health and human services department?
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4464092 tn?1355189185
I don't have health insurance or money to pay for that
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4589197 tn?1375223396
Don't give up! Baby will be born soon, but it isn't time yet. These last few weeks are vital to baby's development and survival. Do you have a counselor you can talk to? If not I think that would be so helpful, as would bringing these feelings up with your doctor. I'm wishing for the best for you and baby.
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