Thank u for all yalls advice
We didn't find out with my son. My husband originally wanted to know but he changed his mind about that. It was actually a BIG motivator when it came time to push.
I know some couples where one partner knew and the other didn't. It becomes kind of a cute game of keeping it a secret :) I think that could be fun if he was willing to let you know. But...like others said you would have to stick with neutral things for now. I like having mostly neutral newborn things because the next time around...i want have to worry about it. Another fun thing he might be into is having the sex written down and put into a sealed envelope and you could open it at a later time when you both can't stand it anymore! My buddy just did that with his wife. They went back to where they were married, re-said their vows to one another and opened the envelope.
Best Wishes!
ya my friend his girlfrend found out and he had no idea the entire time lol
i think you should do what you want
it depends... ask him if its Okay if you go to the appointment and find out what your having and just dont tell him.. but theres one problem you cant go clothes shopping with him.