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10096818 tn?1407784269

im 16!

im 16 and i just went to the the doctor and she told me i was pregnant. idk how im going to tell my boyfriend.. im scared.
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Just tell him, I am 28 and married and was nervous to tell my husband too because our little girl wasn't planned. We had discussed having kids and agreed we'd wait a few more years, then surprise! LOL... No matter your ages he needs to know :-)
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10096818 tn?1407784269
Thank you soo much<3
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9798995 tn?1407136289
I just turned 17 on the 6th. I'm 9 weeks and 1 day. You shouldn't be scared to tell your boyfriend. My boyfriend knew I was late on my period and said he started to get worried. He kept asking me if I started yes and I told him the truth. Eventually, a week later, I took a test. Instead of telling him I sent him a picture of the test, and I called him and told him to check his kik. He was super scared at first. He still is, but he's accepting it more now than he did. My mom came in my room and started talking to me saying that there wasn't any tampons in the trash and she remembered me saying my boobs hurt. She asked if I was pregnant and said 'no.' She was going to go buy a test and I said she didn't have to because I already took some and showed them to her. She didn't believe me at first. The following Monday she took me to a clinic and got me tested again. Now she's super excited wanting to know if it's a boy or a girl. Every time we go shopping she looks at the baby clothes. If I were you, I would tell your parents and boyfriend all at the same time so if they have questions they can all ask you in one sitting. If you're scared of how they're going to react take a friend you trust to be there with you.
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I was 16 when I found out.I was pregnant and my bf just turned 19 and he was oddly happy and exited while I was walking back and forth freaking out . . .it was odd haha but mist guys are.like holy crap but there always happy after a while of gettin use to it :3 keep us updated!!! I want to know.how it goes goodluck
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I'm 18 in college and I was extremely scared to tell my grandma and I was thinking of so.many things to do but I had to pay to God that everything works be ok and that no matter what I had someone on my side. When I finally told her she was shocked but more than excited and happy for someone being brought in this world. So now I'm the happiest person I've ever been and I can't wait until my precious little boy come into my life. I'm now 30 weeks :)
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iwas 13 when i was pregnant with my first daughter, 16 with my son & now im 17 & 7 weeks pregnant
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9207519 tn?1407111405
Im almost 17 & i told husband & he was happy. Told my mom she cried of misery... now shes happy. We got married fast. Now im 27 weeks.
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Im 13 and pregnant and it went down not to bad so good luck x
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Good luck hun. Tell him soon as you need support. hope all goes well.
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7552771 tn?1469929649
Just tell him. But be happy about it when you tell him so he may react better. Also, I think its awful that everyone is saying you should be scared to tell your parents. No matter what even if they're mad your parents will be there for you sooner or later. It seems hard but its really not. I was 17 and told my dad the day after I found out(I'm a daddy's girl and can always come to my dad first about big things). My dad took it well and was super loving. He told my mom she freaked said I needed an abortion and she stopped talking to me for about 3 weeks. But once she saw the first ultrasound she became mega grandma and was showing off her grandchild constantly. Just try to remember they will find out sooner or later and the later it is the worse things get. Good luck and congrats
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10052319 tn?1408978714
I was 17 when i was pregnant i was terrified waited till i was 3 months since i was so scared my bf now husband took it so wonderful he was so excited to be a dad but my parents i was so scared so my bf decided to all go to dinner and let them know at first they didnt believe it and wer upset but soon they couldnt wait!! Goodluck
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Just tell him I'm pregnant .. U should worrie about tell your parents good luck
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I was 16 with my first my sister was pregnant too and I was just like mom I'm pregnant she thought I was lying and said I had my sister pee on the test. So she made me take another one in front of her. She took it OK but she had to cuz my bf was living with us so what else did she expect
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10096818 tn?1407784269
thank you all sooo much
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You'll be okay, the hardest part is telling your parents. I'm 19 and we planned our pregnancy, however my mom was really upset when we finally told her and my father disowned me for the first 3 and a half months but now they're both all for it it's their first grandson so they're super happy and excited about our baby. So don't be afraid of telling your baby's father, it's your parents you should worry about, good luck to you (:
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Tell him immediately and mom afterwards. I was 17 just turned 18 but the sooner u tell them the easier it'll be!!! Cause the father of the baby and my mom plus everyone else is so excited for my baby to here and. Look how afraid i was:) you'll be ok!
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.y boyfriends really stepping up and took it really well too you shouldn't be worried
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9187090 tn?1406264221
Yeah yu shouldn't be scared to tell yur boyfriend. I'm 15 & I was more scared of telling my mom. I just told my boyfriend straight out like "yeah I'm pregnant" & he took it well were both happy abt it. Good luck.
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Hey I'm 16 too I wasn't really scare to till my bf I was more scare to till my parents
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Just be straight forward about it.
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