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[JazzJarv]

How come guys are such assholes?!
My babys daddy is fantastic hes so loving and caring and is always helpfull since i had a c section on saturday. He cleans the house takes care of me and our baby but sometimes hes just an ***! Like im waiting to go to bed cause im exhausted from a 5day labour and a newborn at night. I know hes not tired but i am and because of my section i cant carry everything back upstairs so i have to wait for him for over an hour as he plays a stupid game! Im so tired im breaking down into tears and i kept saying i neded him to come up with me and hed say yeah i know but do nothing and then wonders why im furious and upset. I just feel invisible and ignored and i ended up sorting everything out myself anyway and hes still not come up :( its just so frustrating cause i know hes a good bf n dad

[KTowne]

Did you ask him can you just carry the stuff up for me, then you can come back down? Especially when playing a game they kind of get sucked into it. Thank god my husband isn't into that stuff anymore, but he used to be quite a bit, and it would consume him! I don't blame you for being mad, I wouldn't be nice about it after a few times asking, my husband wouldn't make me stay up and wait for him either, he'd rather just get me out of his face and do it the first time, haha!

[dgrayson6]

Sometimes guys are a little clueless and we have to spell it out for them over and over.