I'm 18w5d and I have only just started to feel fluttering but no kicks. Its ok though. Things will progress in time. :) just remember soon you'll be able to find out the gender of what's going to be kicking you
You guys will be feeling more than kicks. My baby twist turns punches it freaks pple out Lol I'm 39 wks
I'm 17 weeks, 4 days (as of midnight) and I've only felt flutters too. I'm desperate to feel those actual kicks and movements. It's normal. I'm a ftm too :)
Didn't feel mine till21 weeks! Lol