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Ok so I have posted a lot in here through out my pregnancy, if everything would have been normal the way it should have been... I would still be pregnant..I'm not trying to make people feel sorry for me just to let people know it can happen. When you least expect it. Hell I wasn't even planning to get pregnant it just happend. And we welcomed it.. everyone wanted this baby. He was gonna be so spoiled.. but aparently I had an "incompotent cervix" pretty much the baby got to a certain weight and my cervix couldn't hold him, so I went into automatic labor. And my dr at the hospital said there was nothing they could do they couldn't stop my labor so I had my son he was alive up untill he was born at only 21 weeks he was perfect. Nothing at all wrong devoloped perfect, they said in the future I have to get my cervix sewn when I find out I'm prego.. but it makes everything weird now. Cause I feel I should be pregnant right now.. and I'm not. I would have been due april 6th instead it was november 24th...
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I completely understand and im very.sorry for your loss I have two little girls and I'm 20Weeks pregnant with my son. I also have a incompetent cervix I had my first daughter at 7 months and my 2nd at 8mo. I've already started having contractions and very worried to. I wish you the best stay strong
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1287276 tn?1357854419
im so sorry for your loss..the same happen to my sister she had 3 looses and after her third loss the doctors find out she has an incompetent cervix she needs a cerclage m/sp to carry to full terms now she has 5 kids including twin girls..im sorry they didn't find it earlier but at leat now you know nd next time you know what to do to carry to full term..wish all the best hun..
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2093279 tn?1379547953
omg thats horrible to hear! did u have a previous miscarriage before? ur doc shouldve been checking on ur cervix. i know its embarrasing but u were so far already! y didnt they stitch u up or put u on steriods?
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2020005 tn?1628125976
I'm so sorry for your loss hun, I can't imagine going through that, and no mother should have to!
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