Update

[ladytilith]

I just wanted everyone to know that at almost my 8th week, I have had a miscarriage. I'm very upset right now, and I hope that everyone who wants to have a child gets one. But I am one who might never get a child and I have to learn to except that. I thank those of you who tried to help me, and wish everyone good luck. All day Wednesday I had a very bad day and it seems like it has just getting harder. I have cried every night and day since I found out and I'm not sure if that will ever stop. Not only did I have to think about 9/11 being a terrible day for all of the US, but now it will always be a day for me to remember what I almost had! Again I wish everyone the best of luck.

[sweetangel7]

It sounds cliche but with my last miscarriage  I had to tell myself that everyone has a plan, and for me, having a baby at that time wasn't in the plan ALTHOUGH I thought it should have been (married, good job, house, good health insurance...).  I had to make peace with it and eventually things got easier but the first few months were rough!  HUGS!  Hopefully each new day will bring you one step closer to physical and emotional healing!

[Rozy321]

I'm very, very sorry for your loss.  You have every right to mourn and you should take all the time you need to work through the hard feelings you're having.  It is so beautiful that in this hard time for you, you are still thinking of the welfare of others.  Look for support everywhere you can find it and don't be discouraged... something amazing is waiting for you!

[babydreams9]

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. :*( I understand the pain of losing a baby and there are no words that can fully comfort the heartbreak, I know.... and it hurts for a long, long time. The pain never fully goes away. I remember wondering if I would ever stop crying, or ever stop feeling so sad. Try not to loose your faith and understand that you didn't do anything wrong. Miracles happen, but they happen when they're meant to. Try to surround yourself with loved ones and positive energy. You will get through this. You are not alone!