Where will i end up? Please help.. Urgent!

[mariajames]

Hello.. Problem here..

one day me and my bf were making out. We had no intentions of sexual intercourse. We both had alcohol and cigarette initially and started making out. It was on august 1st around 1am. both of us were high on alcohol. i gave him ******** and he came in my mouth. Then he was giving me an oral sex. at one point his penis was touching my vagina(when he was over me and kissing), not inside though, just on the lips. Then i just rubbed them on my vagina as it felt good, but didn't put it in, just on the lips of my vagina (this was around 3am in the morning). after he came fully in my mouth around 30 minutes gap was there when the penis started touching my vagina. that was the first time a penis touched my vagina, that is, i was a virgin. then he turned me on and i came all over him twice consecutively. he sucked my juices completely. then again in the morning around 8am we had oral sex. He came in my mouth and i came again all over him. Morning his penis didn't touch my vagina though. then i washed the vagina during my shower. then i thought i might become pregnant so had i-pill(emergency contraceptive pill) after (around)40hours, that is on august 2nd at around 8.30 pm.
my previous periods were on July 21st, and i am expecting the next periods between 18th and 21st of august.
1. is there any chances that i might become pregnant? please help. i am really worried and tensed.
2. when can i expect my next periods, if its delayed or early due to the pill, by how many days will it be early or delayed.
3. what symptoms i should look for if i am going to become pregnant(the early ones)?
4. If at all i become pregnant, what should i do so as to not have a baby. I ll do it as soon as possible(early measure). i am scared of abortion(surgical) and wish not to go for it.

it will be really appreciated if you can answer my questions as soon as possible.

thank you.

[Chez_lee81]

BTW.... Go and get some birth control so you are prepared for any accidents in the future.

[mariajames]

thank you so much.. i am a little relieved..

[Clysta]

Because it's very rare to have a true period while pregnant, you could assume that if you get one you're not. Keep in mind it could come very early, (as in in a few days) or could be delayed by a week or more. You could also have spotting between now and then. Your period might also be more heavy than normal, or it might be lighter. If it's delayed by more than a week, take a test with first morning urine.

[mariajames]

Thanks a ton. Just one last question, if my periods occur at the normal time or are delayed by not more than 2 or 3 days or if they occur 2-3 days in advance, is it a sign that i am not pregnant? When should i go for a test, that is how long after my period is due?
(expecting my periods to be between 18th and 21st of this month, the last was on July 21st)

[Clysta]

No, you're likely to not be pregnant. Worry is likely to delay your period, so try not to freak out about it. Because you took EC, it's hard to say when you're going to get your next period. It could be early, it could be late, it could completely skip. (You should never take EC unless you've had sex because they're actually horrible for your body) There's not really any symptoms you should look for. You can be pregnant and not have them. Plus there's a chance if you find out what they are you'll freak out and either create them, or put extra focus on it and it could lead you to believe you're pregnant and you're not. (Many women will actually do this when they're worried about pregnancy. It's not just you personally) If you're pregnant, there is nothing you can do to not have a baby except abort. (Which I would never recommend) You could also carry to full term and give the child up for adoption.

[mariajames]

the ******** says this - i gave him an oral sex and he came in my mouth.