vent. stupid men.

[metalmum]

Ok so its my birthday today im 21 :) yay me lol. Any way we are having ppl over for a bbq. Im having a nap tgey don rock up for another 4hours. . I was cooking all night lastnight. My bf comesbarging in. after me asking him and my friend (she basically lives here) to get off the computers to help clean up a bit cos i dont have all the energy. They say yeah sure we will help later. So i announced im going for a nap. All i get is mumbles from them.  sure enough i hear him rage quit from a game.some one must of killed him thru a wall or something on blackops.
and hes stomping all thru the house shouting and yelling y is the house so dirty. Why is it never clean blah blah.
I cookand clean everythind  and pick out his clothes ffs  and he wont do jack. But when i ask forhelp one time he makes the biggest deal over it like he foes it all the time :( ... I just feel useless

[metalmum]

Lol thing is hes a mummys boy nd her nd i get along better than her and him. So if he went back. She'd boot his *** back to me lol

[emmaftm]

Happy birthday!! My bf is exactly the same... he moans about things not being done in the house yet isnt willing to do them himself, i said to him ur in a relationship with me, ur my partner, partners work together.... if u wanted a skivvy get urself a maid n if u wanted a mother u already hav one so go back to her :) he soon stopped moaning n started helping!

[metalmum]

True. Hes so pig headed though. It has been like this cos hes worried about money. And bills. He just becomes a huge ****. Nd thinks hes always correct... *rage*

[Optimysticmama]

First and foremost... Happy Birthday! And as far as ur bf goes, I wouldn't worry too much. Yes, it makes you feel like sh!t now but in the long run, it's not worth fighting over. Obviously this is your guys first baby. My hubby didn't do crap around the house and was always pissy like this til I had our first. Good luck babe :)