why?

[paigeelaine316]

I lost my baby's Aug last year I was just over 3 months, I was having identical twins and didn't find out till my first scan. the same day I found out my one twin was a lot bigger than the other, both their hearts were beating but the small twin lay at the bottom of the scan and the big one was moving all around.. the small one had liquid around his heart and the big ones brain grew outside the skull, I was distraught and didn't want to talk or understand that I had to let go of them. I was told the little one would die before the end of my pregnancy (small ones heart stopped beating the following day) and I was told the big one wasn't capatable with life, is this all coincidence or is their a related cause? has this happened to anyone else? still I dream about it now giving birth to dead babies just like I did with the twins. just want to know if this has happened to anyone else

[paigeelaine316]

thank you that's helpful to hear xxx :)

[hayang]

my sister had a healthy pregnancy up until a couple weeks before her due date. at one of her check ups, they just couldn't find my niece's heartbeat. she had to give birth to her baby. still born. perfectly healthy and doctor's have no idea why she passed.
sometimes the little ones just aren't ready to be brought into this world. my sister was in a physically abusive relationship and i think her husband would've also abused their little girl .
things are so much bigger than what we understand. but i know Jacel is being raised in heaven just like your babies.
my sister now has two kids. a son who is almost four, and an eight year old daughter.
don't give up or lose hope.

[paigeelaine316]

thank you, thanks for posting grateful xxx

[sarahtom059]

I'm really sorry that, that happened to you xxx
I had 2 miscarriages last year march and July and I still think about them often but it's gotten easier, i didn't see their heartbeats, they just grew to a point and then stopped.
You will get through it and it will get easier xxx
Thinking of you

[paigeelaine316]

thank you for your advice

[snrich7420]

Omg I am so sorry for ur loss. I went the a miscarriage In 05 I was 12 weeks but I never had a ultrasound or saw it. I was really sad nd depressed for like a yr nd a half. its so hard to get over losing a baby but try to just stay strong nd it.ll get better. I will keep u in my prayers keep ur head up girly:)