need help!

[jaybird247]

So I have a 1 yr daughter .....father not involved. Had a current bf but now wants nothing to do with me or his child I'm carrying. Currently 3month. Now family wants me to get abortions and start new. They dnt want me in the situation I am now with my daughter  single mom and with no child support.... Raising a second kid in same situation not ideal ...I dnt know what do. Need advice.

[sber0829]

Girl go get them for child support. It takes two to make a baby! If they don't want to be around that's even more time for you but its a responsibility as a man to provide for his child! You shouldn't struggle because of these boys. Child support also pays for a babysitter , its not the baby's fault. And if you can't find one they have different options. Make them pay!

[MePlusMyTwo]

Go ahead and ask your supervisor for the 9 To 5 position at your job if there is one so by the time you are ready to come back to work you will already have that part taken care of as for the babysitting I'm pretty sure you will figure something out

[RaeeLeen04]

IF you do decide to get an abortion DONT do it because your family wants you to you'll end up regretting it. Also don't look at all the negative things. I know it may be a little harder not having the other person there but you can do it. Keep your head up momma.

[jaybird247]

Yes I am on that now with this child but...I work nights and Family always complain about watching her...it's very hard. I can't depend on them....with a second child I would have to find a different job a 9-5 but now a days hard to come by. Not to mention other family members will be extremely judgmental that I put myself I'm situation. Prior to this I wanted my child but know I'm seriously confused.

[MePlusMyTwo]

I do understand where your coming from but you can do it. You can still put the unborn child's dad on child support and get your ABC vouchers so the child can go to daycare or whatever else you need done