need to vent! So fustrated And Mad!

[roni00]

I'm a ftm and I'm 34weeks, this whole pregnancy I have tried to have everything prefect for when my baby gets here and the more I try to do that, it seem like I ruin things more.. first I washed her baby clothes and everything shrunk so idk if it will even fit her.. now I washed her crib stuff and the blacked is ruin it tore is different places, and I think they won't change it bc I washed it n bc I tore the tags off of it.. I knowbi shouldn't make a big deal over theae small things but its so hard not to let it bother me.. I struggled to get pregnant n I dreamed of how it would all be and nothing has turn out the way I wnated it to be.. I'm jst so frustrated n sad, now i have a ruin crib set n nothing I can do about it..

[twinsmamarae]

Take the bedding back! If i bought a brand new blanket andwashed it and it ripped that fast id be pretty p.o.'d and demand a refund or exchange. What a crappy product to fall apart so fast! I have only a box of diapers and wipes and two onzies. Im due to have my twins sometime in october and im not rushing! I find the harder i try the more i mess i make lol youre not alone.. just try to relax and remember the only thing that baby needs is not material items.. relax a bit and enjoy these little mishaps. In a few months u wont remember them anyway bc youll be too busy loving your new bundle of joy;) relax mama itll all come together!

[SuperMomma2012]

You could paint it or buy a pretty wood finish

[lexa_k]

I'm sorry you are feeling this way! I hope things turn around soon. At the end of the day you love your baby and will take good care of her. That's all she'll really need. Everything else is secondary :)