fed up of worrying

[momabear86]

I'm 27+3 days and feel there hadn't a day gone by I haven't been a nervous wreck!. Before I had a cyst so for the first 15 weeks was always on pain and finding myself in AnE every other week. My Bf brought me a doppler which worked great and at 23 weeks I felt the first kicks but now they have become less and less and I find it hard to find a heart beat. I phoned my midwife who says as long as I feel something a day then not to worry but that's easier said than done! I'm so scared I'm going to lose my little girl and don't think I could stand it if I did. Is there any help out there for me?

[momabear86]

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[momabear86]

It's like the right hand doesn't know what the left is doing. My doctor at hospital wants my gp to see me every 3 weeks but when I go (which costs for taxis) he doesn't seem to do anything. I get more help in this forum than any where else!

[Babyiish]

Im 26weeks 3days and sometimes I feel like I'm suffering from anxiety and a little depression
Everything worries me :(

Hey mommabear talk about stress....
I went to the genetic place due to calcium deposit in my baby's heart (four weeks ago)
A sign of DS (1-10,000) 
Decline the amnio test 
Got consoling and a 3d ultrasound
The dr told me he has a good profile and theirs no other indications of DS....
But the only way to find out for sure was to do the amnio test
Wish I didnt do 
due to the risk of miscarring... :(
 
I still have 13 weeks and 4days to go ...
I try not to think about it chances are low and Im just praying for everything to be fine

Try to relax a little enjoy your pregnancy.....
I hope you feel better....
Xxxxxx

(Keeping a journal has help me relax a little...)

Take care
Try to find a new OB/gyn

[momabear86]

It's such a worrying time.

[momabear86]

Thanks everyone. I can understand them not rushing people every time u have a concern but seems no one cares

[parkersmommy]

26w2d and have been on anxiety meds for about three weeks. They really are starting to help. Talk to someone about it and good luck

[leenieleenie]

im 26+1 weeks. am fine they have scanned me and all seems well. they are keepin me in just to monitor me as i was sick whilst i was here and had a headache. but dont think thry are awfully concerned. xx

[trying43]

Sounds like ur dr isn't taking ur concerns seriously, I would get another dr.  Good luck.

[momabear86]

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[momabear86]

Thanks. How far are you. Hoping everything is ok. X

[leenieleenie]

i know totally how you feel. just constant worry. in one sense its sometimes good to know your not the only one goin through it. i am currently sitting in triage as i was bleeding. probably wait bout two hours to be seen. im always on here if you need an ear to bend. chin up x

[momabear86]

Thanks. I just feel I have no one to help me or even listen. Experts have made things worse, for example my midwife did the FH test and I was way off so she wanted an emergency scan, which ended up being 4 days later! For me to get there and be denied saying there's no point till I'm 32 weeks and that she had just measured wrong! I feel I'm losing my mind

[leenieleenie]

women are affected in pregnancy. hope this helps. x

[leenieleenie]

you should go and speak to ur oen doctor. i eas the exact same im 26 weeks. the doc gave me meds fot anxity which i suffered eith before hand but he said due to hormone increase. he said the meds woulf be fine and the difference they have made is unreal. he says people always stress bout things happenin when baby c comes but some

[momabear86]

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